...then should you expect to meet your "soul-mate" here?
It takes work, as will the new relationship you hope to find here.
Should anyone expect you to keep the excitement kindled in a relationship with you if you're unwilling to keep your PROFILE fresh and updated?
Which means I gotta get busy...
1) PLEASE SMILE. Be proud of your 24-carat grille, with diamond studs! Especially for the ladies: if you don't think you possess a movie-celebrity smile, then take a hint from the "Victorias' Secret" models. Part your lips slightly, as if you're about to say something, or kiss someone. This is incredibly provocative, and adds much character (...as well as subliminal suggestion)to your pic.
2) PLEASE POST FULL BODY SHOTS (not everyone cares that you don't have a supermodel body; besides your supposed "unattractiveness" may reside only in YOUR mind!). I've seen a few clever ladies take a pic where their hair is fanned out upon a pillow. The camera is mounted upon a tripod BEHIND THEIR HEAD, focused down their blouse just a bit, and their head is tilted back, so they may look both BACK and UP at the camera. OH BOY! SEXY! YET TASTEFUL AND APPROPRIATE!
3) POST PIX OF YOURSELF WITH YOUR FRIENDS, LIVING IT UP! This demonstrates that you're likeable...even approachable!
4) TRIPODS ARE NOT EXPENSIVE. If you take lazy shots of yourself, as I did, someone may ask, "Hey, what is that thing sticking out of your head (please not my post pic)? Will this be sticking out of your head as I walk to meet you at our table in the crowded restaurant? (I had taken a picture of myself, while holding my camcorder in the bathroom mirror. The LCD viewscreen appeared to have been sticking out of my head. I never would have seen this, had someone not pointed this out to me...)
Also, I just noticed that my post pic is way too dark...this can make one look older.
5) Another mingler interpreted my username as not TRUBLU4U, but TRUBL-4U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In her subconscious attempt to protect herself, she totally left out a single, though vital element..."U"!!!
UNKNOWN TO YOU, PEOPLE COULD BE SHYING AWAY FROM YOUR PROFILE BASED UPON SOME SHOCKING MIS-INTERPRETATION IN EITHER YOUR TEXT/PICTURES.
USE "RATE MY PROFILE", and often.
6) Try to look at your profile as would a visitor. You may be either pleasantly surprised, or DISMAYED at what you discover!
Thanks, and have a great time!

thanks for the advice and all but I'm happy with my profile just the way it is and didnt make it to please you

i'm happy the way mine is thank u. soul mate,smole mate,bah

Thanks for taking the words out of my mouth

Having no soul myself, a 'soulmate' is just out of the question.

As long as YOU are happy with your profile on this social site, that's all that matters, isn't it.

<---fresh enough???

phew! good thing i'm not here to meet anyone...my pics are like...a year old?

and i haven't changed my profile in forever. i think it still states i have cats, lol.

I use Saran Wrap to keep my junk fresh...

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used DIAL?!!

don't you wish everybody did?

Unless.......they are Zestfully clean~!!!

My profile might not be fresh.....but my colon squeezings are....ppppppffffffttttttt!!!

Oh, I just had to click and see what will happen to me if I don't keep my profile fresh.

Apparantly we will be lonely, broke and shivvering in the cold

Someone told me privately that my profile didn't have that fresh clean smell.

Well that won't be a change from my current then.....SWEET!