Topic: Response to Cheating
Katzenschnauzer's photo
Thu 08/13/09 03:09 AM
This hasn't happened to me for over 25 years but if you have ever had your person cheat on you and you found out, what did you do? Swing an axe, cry your toenails up? Blame the other guy/girl?

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Thu 08/13/09 03:11 AM

This hasn't happened to me for over 25 years but if you have ever had your person cheat on you and you found out, what did you do? Swing an axe, cry your toenails up? Blame the other guy/girl?

kill em? oh no, I don't want to waste my time in jail... :laughing:

Jtevans's photo
Thu 08/13/09 03:20 AM
tell her to give me the money that she earned from it smokin

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Thu 08/13/09 04:20 AM
Packed up, moved, filed for divorce, and cried for three months straight.

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Thu 08/13/09 04:38 AM
Be desapointed she would not have been honest enough with me to tell me she wasn't satisfied with our relation, if she can't talk to me then I have no reason to stay with her, would just pack say goodbye and move on to find the one that would be honest with me.

papersmile's photo
Thu 08/13/09 04:46 AM
Edited by papersmile on Thu 08/13/09 04:47 AM

This hasn't happened to me for over 25 years but if you have ever had your person cheat on you and you found out, what did you do? Swing an axe, cry your toenails up? Blame the other guy/girl?


close to all of the above, but i didn't really blame the other person.

i've always felt that the only two people who can ruin a relationship are the two people involved in it.

so i took some of the responsibility myself and, while trying to forgive, distanced myself emotionally from him in a way that the gap wouldn't ever be able to close.

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Thu 08/13/09 04:51 AM
Let him go without reservations or grief. I mourned the loss of the relationship but didn't take blame onto myself. No one makes another cheat, some do it for the thrill, some do it out of unhappiness and some do it because they can't help themselves...they just seem determined to wreck their relationships.
I blame the two cheaters equally. And I believe Karma can be a real B*tch, what goes around comes back around.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 08/13/09 04:56 AM

This hasn't happened to me for over 25 years but if you have ever had your person cheat on you and you found out, what did you do? Swing an axe, cry your toenails up? Blame the other guy/girl?
...how many times does this question have to be asked this week? Um uh, answer? Move on?

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 08/13/09 05:07 AM
This has not happened to me but at this age

Who needs the drama. Guess I'd move on:heart:

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Thu 08/13/09 07:10 AM
have sex with her mom

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/13/09 07:18 AM
I actually stayed after being cheated on, but that was the beginning of the end of my marriage.

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Thu 08/13/09 07:22 AM

have sex with her mom



Now THAT'S original! whoa

Jhavez's photo
Thu 08/13/09 07:49 AM
Edited by Jhavez on Thu 08/13/09 07:51 AM
want to see her face when she walks into this the next day


catseyes1's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:10 AM
I caught my last boyfriend cheating and I just dumped his arse.

newarkjw's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:25 AM
I threw my wife out of the house.........smokin

EquusDancer's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:29 AM
Cut it off...

Actually I go in to a relationship with that up front. It's never been cheating that was my problem.

digger56's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:31 AM
Packed up and left. Once a cheater always a cheater. If it was true love I don't think they would have cheated. There isn't enough begging in the world that would get me to take them back.

freebirdmale's photo
Thu 08/13/09 08:55 AM
I was cheated on by my ex wife i stayed with her thinking that she would change when i saw that she would not i left her for some one else.