Is that after you've done it the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th times?

Chrissy

I have to be honest and state that my last couple of dates, I slept with the person the first time; not that I was out to get it, but it was clear that that is what they wanted (and who could blame them, its me after all), but yes I dated most of them; I figured that that was out of the way, we could enjoy each other and do other things.

I have never asked a woman if she has sex on the first date.
You really don't know until you've gone out on the date, hence you are dating. The question should be whether to continue dating after she has sex with you on the first date, or is willing to have sex on the first date.

It's not a general habit of mine.

I just think a man who has sex on the first date is slutty!! LOL. Jmo

Two shea ....
A date is dateing this is all true

HAHAHA BUSTED

Sex on a first implies a strong phsical attraction on both parts. (or at least the womans) but it doesn't say much for the emotional and can even ruin it as well. It also implies sluty behavior on the womans part and a pigs mindset on the guy's.

So to answer the question, no. I think it would be unwise. The only logical thing to do from there is to eithor cut it off or just be friends with benifits. But how many people can truely do the nsa thing without emotions anyhow.

Thats the way I see it. Im not saying that Im right Im only 22 after all. Thats just how I feel at this point in my life.

I had sex on a first date and we ended up together for 8 years... longest relationship I ever had. Longer than my marriage.

Yes...

I wanted to date them in the first place... Why would that change.

Bigger question...

Would you then expect sex on every date?

I would not. (would like it of course) (would indicate she could actually keep up with me in that area).

Takes about three days for the burning to start.
At least, that's what I heard, anyway.

I don't think I'd be aiming to sleep with someone on a first date, personally.

I never aimed for it...

But sometimes it happens.

I date ladies... I am quite sure they were not looking to 'score' either.

But mutual and sudden attraction of that type leads to the greatest sex...

Normally i wouldn't but i have!

I have slept with a person on a first date, and then dated them. Wasn't a big deal, it's all about the connection. Needs to be a bit more concrete than strictly sex, or it really goes nowhere fast.

determines if it was a chemisty or just a lust.

would'nt that make it a first date slammin on the first date.!!!