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Topic: Would you ask a man to marry you?
daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 08/12/09 05:44 PM
One of my best friends (who is now married) believes that you have to ask the man and not wait around for him to ask the question. Your thoughts on this. (Should a woman ask a man to marry her and not wait for him to ask) I think it would be ok to ask the man, what have you got to lose??? If this is the direction you want the relationship to go you will have an instant answer and can make a decision to move on.

cityblues21 Joined Sat 07/05/08 Posts: 20033	Wed 08/12/09 05:50 PM
No... I would not ever ask a man to marry me. I believe that is something best left up to them. I tend to be old fashioned I guess in this regard. Besides it kind of seems a bit pushy... in my opinion. If they want to ask, they will. If they don't, they won't. Pretty straight forward and simple.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 08/12/09 05:52 PM
No more marriage for either one of us thank you!!! But no I would not I'm old school that way!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Wed 08/12/09 05:52 PM
No... I would not ever ask a man to marry me. I believe that is something best left up to them. I tend to be old fashioned I guess in this regard. Besides it kind of seems a bit pushy... in my opinion. If they want to ask, they will. If they don't, they won't. Pretty straight forward and simple.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 08/12/09 05:56 PM
One of my best friends (who is now married) believes that you have to ask the man and not wait around for him to ask the question. Your thoughts on this. (Should a woman ask a man to marry her and not wait for him to ask) I'll cut you all a deal...you don't ask me, I won't ask you.

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 08/12/09 05:57 PM
So what happened to all the equality between the genders??? This is giving the man so much power.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Wed 08/12/09 05:58 PM
no but a man asked me to marry him

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Wed 08/12/09 05:59 PM
One of my best friends (who is now married) believes that you have to ask the man and not wait around for him to ask the question. Your thoughts on this. (Should a woman ask a man to marry her and not wait for him to ask) I'll cut you all a deal...you don't ask me, I won't ask you. A deal

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Wed 08/12/09 05:59 PM
If I found someone I actually wanted to marry I would have no qualms about asking

Buttah Joined Fri 06/19/09 Posts: 2382	Wed 08/12/09 06:00 PM
No, I don't think I would ask him. I would want the whole "down on one knee" thing.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Wed 08/12/09 06:03 PM
No, I don't think I would ask him. I would want the whole "down on one knee" thing. yeah i got that it was cool - pity the marriage wasn't

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Wed 08/12/09 06:11 PM
Not a snowballs chance in hell.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Wed 08/12/09 06:13 PM
Would you ask a man to marry you? hmmm, oh Robin ........ oh nothing, i just wanted to say 'hi'

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Wed 08/12/09 06:14 PM
hahaha...stop reading my mind, Earthychicka!!! I have and will ask to live in sin, though..

Buttah Joined Fri 06/19/09 Posts: 2382	Wed 08/12/09 06:18 PM
No, I don't think I would ask him. I would want the whole "down on one knee" thing. yeah i got that it was cool - pity the marriage wasn't lol Hi fifer

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Wed 08/12/09 06:22 PM
No, I don't think I would ask him. I would want the whole "down on one knee" thing. yeah i got that it was cool - pity the marriage wasn't lol Hi fifer Hi sweetie

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Thu 08/13/09 11:40 AM
Would you ask a man to marry you? hmmm, oh Robin ........ oh nothing, i just wanted to say 'hi' smart alecky women gotta love em

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/13/09 11:41 AM
No I would not....I like to see my man sweat!!!

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 08/13/09 11:42 AM
eh maybe, I prefer to shack up though.