Topic: pending invites
jp4023's photo
Tue 05/22/07 10:09 PM
ok i'm curious I have about 7 invites I've wanted to talk to and they
date back to around march of this year why arent they accepting or
deleting? I've seen them pop on several times in the past just wondering

chris87's photo
Tue 05/22/07 10:14 PM
well do like i do when u see some one s viewed u just hit they profile
up and say u gonna view me but u couldnt request me

iRon's photo
Tue 05/22/07 10:34 PM
Yeah, they are just playing hard to get.

Never give up, never surrender happy

no photo
Tue 05/22/07 11:20 PM
JP - Are you talking about 'friend' invites you've sent to others?

unsure's photo
Wed 05/23/07 08:57 AM
If they have not accepted or declined...maybe its because they do not
want to hurt your feelings? I was wondering if someone does
decline....does it tell the person that you were declined? Thats why
when someone offers to be my friend...I just don't even answer it
because I don't want to hurt anyones feelings blushing

no photo
Wed 05/23/07 12:04 PM
Unsure, I don't know if it explicitly tells the person, but even if
not, of course they should be able to figure it out if they are paying
attention.

JP, I agree with unsure, if you are talking about friend request I bet
they are leaving you in limbo only because they don't want to hurt your
feelings by rejecting you. I'd sent them some email, and if they ignore
it, then its time to cancel your friend request and leave 'em be.

daniel48706's photo
Wed 05/23/07 02:06 PM
as far as wether or not your told of a declined invitation, the answer
is yes and no. Noyou are not directly told. However, if you look on
your home page for jsh by your photo, yuo will see a pending invite
section with a couple options. If you look in there yu will see if you
have any invites standing either coming to you or ones you have put out.

Now to answerthe oiginal question, I for one have a pending invite
waiting on back burner due to not knowing the person. I am waiting
until I see the in the forums for a whie and see what type of person
they are first.

Hotchikita's photo
Thu 05/24/07 12:55 AM
some times they just whant to see if you will send a message to talk to
them. mabe they just whant to know you more.flowerforyou

felisha_21's photo
Thu 05/24/07 06:29 PM
SORRY I COULD BE ONE OF EM WHO DONT ACCCEPT OR JUST LEAVE THEM

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Fri 05/25/07 10:37 AM
I was playing around with this on the phone with a friend, and it looks
like:

If you send someone an invite, and they hit BLOCK, this does not reject
the invite on the senders end. It just makes it disappear on the
receivers end.

Can anyone verify that I understand that right?

If thats the case, then if someone blocks you the invite you sent them
will just sit there in limbo until you cancel the invite.