Topic: What do you think about this situation? | |
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Ya know.....the best way for her to handle this situation is to let him go with a smile on her face. I know.....grrrrrrr I would find it hard too.
But here is the "catch"....the more she ******* about him going without her etc the more he will want to leave. Its all ****ing reverse psych isnt it??? |
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Ya know.....the best way for her to handle this situation is to let him go with a smile on her face. I know.....grrrrrrr I would find it hard too. But here is the "catch"....the more she ******* about him going without her etc the more he will want to leave. Its all ****ing reverse psych isnt it??? |
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Ya know.....the best way for her to handle this situation is to let him go with a smile on her face. I know.....grrrrrrr I would find it hard too. But here is the "catch"....the more she ******* about him going without her etc the more he will want to leave. Its all ****ing reverse psych isnt it??? |
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Oh crap!!! Muriel woke up!!!
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i wonder this.... if u worked 2 days a week and was dating someone that worked 5 days a week, you have traveled outta state 18 times the last yr and your signifigant other never came to see you, how you would feel? just curious here... for a relationship both should feel wanted and the extra effort should go both ways.. jmo i wonder if she ever pays for him to come see her at least? hummmmm..
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not only would i NOT wrap my head around this story, i would not bite the apple nor take the bait off the hook.
marry her someday....in their next life only when he quits his playing..... theres another woman somewhere... |
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If I were her I'd take time off work and go to him around his time for vacation and try and go with him payin my own way!! And if he still says no then definately somethings up!! But I have never been in a relationship where my man wanted to go on vacation w/o me!! So idk
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something wrong here.
another woman in a far off place waitin in the wings quietly. |
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I stay out of others couples biz!! It's safe that way!! No drama!! I totally agree with this statement!! |
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okay let's all stay out of it now, and c what happens.
so send us a report okay when u find out what is really going on... |
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He is going alone, and all the other vacations he's takin previously were on singles cruises! hes goin to australia, no family! And I am in NO way shape or form influencing any decisions she makes, thats on her! Hes a nice guy, but idk! She doesnt go see him cuz she works 5 days a week no time off, hes a firefighter and only works 2 days a week! I just wanted to see if others thought what I did! Where in Australia????? |
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hey i've heard of people taking separate vacations...that way they stay married and together....
we could be all wrong here. he might need his space.....with the other woman...hiding in the closet...waiting in the wings.. |
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Im not sure where in Australia! But I gave her some of your guys' good advice and she took it, so hopefully she's wrong! He is a good guy from what I know! Thanks to everyone!
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Gee it really sounds fish you know.In this particular case im assuming she is at least 40 years old .you need to tell her to open her eyes . Not like there seeing a whole lot of each other .some thng is definitely wrong if I were here I wouldn't be thinking of marrying him just my opinion mike
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Gee it really sounds fish you know.In this particular case im assuming she is at least 40 years old .you need to tell her to open her eyes . Not like there seeing a whole lot of each other .some thng is definitely wrong if I were here I wouldn't be thinking of marrying him just my opinion mike hahaha...she is definitley not 40! She is only 29! |
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What went through my mind was that maybe he is going to go see her but wants it to be a surprise.
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3 days every 2 months is not a relationsip. Hes full of it, and she believes his crap. Something fishy? UNDERSTATEMENT.
She should have moved on when she relaised this is all she can have with this man. You cant know someone like that. |
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there r 2 many unknowns in tha situation. If u even start 2 belive its sum fishy then u dont have trust and no relationship can survive without trust
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there r 2 many unknowns in tha situation. If u even start 2 belive its sum fishy then u dont have trust and no relationship can survive without trust
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Not enough info, though first impression says bad news especially being around the holidays. Personally speaking when I'm in love and that far apart, I would have to go see my woman. So doesn't look good so far Yes, I feel the same way...I would be terribly hurt if he didn't want to spend the time with me...ESPECIALLY since they can spend only a few days together every couple of months. People show their love...or lack of it...in funny ways...but it's HER relationship, so ultimately...only SHE can make that judgment call... |
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