well i could suggest where u are going wrong but ya wouldn't like it!

Ok....firstly...legibility is important...being able to communicate clearly and concisely.

It kind of goes hand in hand with intelligence...and is usually indicative of it.

Secondly...you usually spoil every woman you date.

I too am interested in what this 'spoiling' may mean...if it is material things, gifts, fabulous restaurants, flowers, balh blah blah...that's 'buying' a date....

Spoiling is attentive behaviour...attention!...and surprise surprise...FREE!!!!!


No woman has ever held your heart in her hand?...good thing, unless she is a surgeon...

Expectations and fluffy pink butterfly versions of love, are just that...crap! Vomit inducing garbage.


Be innovative, grow a spine, get a job, learn how to communicate in a legible manner...and show some emotional intelligence by getting on with being a whole man, and not a sad sack.


Tough love...I know....but meant with sincere intentions...there are enough nice guy pathetic poor me's....don't become another one...

Stop while you're ahead? Well, that's what I did anyway...suppose it doesn't work for everyone.

ah, come on, tell him how to get her to hold his heart in her hand, or under the table, or in the microwave, see where i'm going with this?

Tricks of the trade...you can't teach it, they either have the ability to keep a person under their stoop...err...in their "heart", yes, "heart"...forever...and ever...and ever...

i knew you were the master

I think thoughtfulness goes a long way with the right woman. It doesn't require spending huge amounts of money. Try writing cute little notes or coming up with little cards, picnics, and such. There are many ways to show you care without spending tons of money.

1- You have trouble opening you heart to the type of love you wish for.
2- It could be you have not met anyone worth openning your heart for and your intuition knew it.
3- Past influences possibly may have ruined the experience for you.
4-Your expectations of love could be too high and not allow room for growing and make the whole experience disappointing for your psyche and emotional strength in that particular arena.

Food for thought.......Good luck!!

Food for thought, as well I would ask myself Do I give up any part of my identity to try and fulfill what I percieve is their needs. In man speak dude be your damn self. No one can truly make anyone do anything. We always have a choice. You have to just be yourself, she will love you or she wont. The jerks get the ladies because they are confident and like who they are more so then the nice guy who's overly concerned and insecure about how a girl will act. If you try to hard to please someone they lose respect, as well you resent them for being aloof. Then again what the hell do I know? lol good luck

Don't be resentful for acts of selflessness being exposed as bribery. That's all I gotta say.

Stop compensating for your inadequacies and work on them. Forget dating for now.

Invent a robot woman

RELAX,,,be you, don't pretend, If you feel your a stable man, and your money satisfies your needs,,COOL,
Don't brag, yet be asertive in who you are..And give them time to express who they are to you..Let the person you are reflect the real you, don't speak with a dumb question, think about your conversation your having, and interject with all of your relaxed train of thoughts,wink
And as for the right one,,,HELL BRO,,that MAY never COME AROUND,,SO EXCEPT them FOR BEING not perfect AND EXPERIENCE them LONG ENOUGH TO feel THEIR HEART AND TO SEE IF IT MIGHT JUST Want to join with yours..

Good luck and I wish ya all the happiness you can stand,,,,

sorry, that just struck me as funny

Ditto that yo foshizzle.

ONLY I can do that without being noticed,,,,lol,lol
But It was an openning smile as per content of that statement,,,lol

See, I CLAIM I am BAD with english grammer spelling and PROPER, anything,,,its what makes me so undesirerible,,,,,,,lol

yah I dont mean to pick at spelling. I'm sure its just a typo and such

it just made me laugh

it's the little things that make the day