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Topic: what is the recipe
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Sat 08/08/09 03:21 PM


What do you do to meet someone on a dating site? How do you act, how do you decide who you like, what do you do? I haven't a clue.


You act like who you are. Be yourself.

You like who you like based on any number of factors.

You do what you would always do. Say what you would always say.

There is no " formula ".

It just is what it is.


Sounds about right....and in my case.....it ain't much......laugh But I can't say I'm not being true to who I really am. Rather have fewer people appreciate me for me, then more appreciate a fake facade right?

OP....Just be your fabulous self!

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Sat 08/08/09 03:27 PM
I leave it all up to my heart since that is who is in control. My mind has a minor part in the decision, but unless my heart approves, the mind can get shot down.

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Sat 08/08/09 03:37 PM
I think just be yourself. If you try to be something your not it will sound fake and be discovered anyway.

I don't think everyone expects something perfect or even above average. They want someone who is real. Who will make an effort.

I do think if you are having a particularly bad day maybe you would want to avoid advertiseing that because that might be the only perspective a person sees of you and will form their opinion from just that. Things tend to live forever on line.

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