not if you want to find out if he is a ex con. then yea it would be a good idea.. you dont want a murder or a rapisit on your side

Honestly...if you have that kind of doubt, you're with the wrong person...

I'm sorry Dubzi. I just had to make sure that you are the rapsta dancing machine that you claim to be. I won't ever do it again, I promise!!!!

Anyone who is on this site must be fine. This is a tough place to get accepted.

i had a friend yrs ago try to set me up with her bf friend, and she told me he was in jail but she didnt know what for... i called the jail to find out why.. and OMG!!! im glad i didnt meet him.... he was in jail for murder..... yea the jail can tell you if its needed.



and no i dont talk to that friend anymore, she has wayyy to much going on in her life, (like hiding from her ex bf) what i have heard is a psycho

If there is some doubt there then the best way to go about is doing a search of public records first. I know here in KS you can search the offender registration site and I think you can also search those that have had prostitution charges - at least at one time you could.

Also in KS there is a KASPER site. It is with the Dept of Corrections in KS and it shows their pic, their charges, if they are currently on probation, etc. I would think all states would have this online.

There is also zabas e a r c h dot com. (last time I put this on the forums it was erased. It is free site but refers you to paid searches if that is what you are looking for. You can check address, DOB and phone numbers. This helps to make sure the person you are chatting w/online is real.

You can go to the county courthouse and search public records or some libraries and do some searching.

In depth reports you will have to pay for.

Good luck on your search and I hope this dude that your friend has suspicions about turns up to be legit. But, truly if there is something that is raising her concerns, she should follow her gut and get away from him.

If they want to be part of my privacy.. then I have a right to know everything I can about them!

and if they aren't hiding anything.. there isn't a problem.

hell no it isn't an invasion.
these days it pays to play safe.

you can also look up sex offender list in every state -online.. for free.
But you have to know for fact that said person has given you their real name

Will everyone here please email me your real name- so I can run a check on you!!

IF your really wanting to know,,ASK THEM to GIVE YOU a contact, Or a family member who can SPEAK for them,wink
I have three grown kids ,,,AND ALL WOULD DO THIS FOR ME..
Just a CHEAP,,,thought,,,wink,lol

I'm sure they would be more than happy to give you the number and addy or their parole officer!!

edit: realistically though.. they can ask me for a copy of my record.
When I applied for my current job, they gave me a copy of what came back from my background check!!!!
and I can show my permit to carry a concealed weapon!!
Now that is a strict background check!!!!

WELL, TO BE REAL HERE, MY SON'S A COP HERE, and not only does he NOT LIE, but HE and I can be CHECKED OUT, through his department, as to OUR past,,,,,records.
SO NOW, to add to life and truth, NONE of my kids have EVER been arrested,,and I have two EX-WIVES who would if I asked,,,TELL ANYONE,,MY TRUTH,,
So as for MOST PEOPLE who are F&CK-UPS,,THEIR FAMILY and KIDS,,SHOULD BE ABLE to SPEAK for them,,and IF NOT,,,,,,WHY????

Drew was a cop...
2 wives killed

http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/crime/2009/07/22/jvm.peterson.walk.cnn

nevermind

I know I'll just be ignored but you really should be acting like an adult instead of some junior-high kid. Sorry.