OH AND P.S. .... GYPSY, I DON'T HAVE ANY EITHER, BUT I SHOW
MINE.....

Hi, Gypsy,

Personality -- sense of humor, intelligence, knowledge, zest for life,
curiosity, conversational ability -- is to me the real turn-on.
Cleavage displays may get a moment of initial attention but my overall
reaction is somewhat negative, to tell the truth.

Of course, I am just another babbling male

Oceans

Im an oral sex man myself, I love to talk about it!!!!

You know, it's a funny thing...I've been on Internet dating sites for
seven years and, up until recently, never had a bikini/cleavage/legs
shot in my profile.

This is the first time in a long time I've felt even remotely
comfortable wearing one and a friend of mine said I looked good enough
to put one up, so I did. I figured I'd get laughed at and called fat and
so forth and so on but, much to my surprise, with only two exceptions --
and those were women, so who gives a damn? LOL -- all I've gotten have
been compliments.

When I was much much younger, and had a much MUCH better-looking body,
there is no WAY I'd have put up a swimsuit photo. I was much too
self-conscious about the way I looked. As I've aged, I don't know if
it's more of the fact I have more self-confidence, or if it's partly
that I just don't give a damn what people think anymore. I think
probably a little of both.

What's more, I haven't gotten ANY overtly sexual comments on this site
or on any others that I have the same pics up, yet I've gotten some
absolutely filthy ones (like I was talking about before) from men who
either haven't seen a pic of me at all or who have seen pics of me only
in street clothes.

So go figure.

I think anyone who reads my profile and takes note of all of my pictures
and who, particularly, reads my posts, will be able to figure out I'm
hardly what you'd call "easy." And the fact I haven't gone out with but
about 9 men in seven years (and only had sex with one of them) should
speak to that, too.

Now, I could see someone getting the "wrong idea" if I was POSING
provocatively (swimsuit or no), and if my posts were really trashy,
etc., but to assume that I'm "easy" because I have a bathing suit on in
my picture is ...well, rather STUPID, IMO.

I mean, if a woman is wearing a swimsuit at a beach, does that means
she's easy? Or does that change the perspective, because it's a beach?
I've seen some women on the beach who have swimsuits on that cover so
little they might as well be naked.

So, in my particular case, if anyone's wondering if the reason I have a
swimsuit pic up is to suggest "Come'n git it," well, hardly.

I have swimsuit pics up because these days I feel like I look pretty
damn decent, particularly for being close to 50, and it
probably won't be that much longer that I'll be comfortable wearing a
swimsuit in public anymore.

Hell, even the Miss America, etc., contestants wear swimsuits. Are they
considered "easy" because they're wearing them?

So gypsy, if you want to put a swimsuit pic on here, then I say go for
it.

alll day ,everyday. boobies booobiesss

I THINK ITS WONDERFUL THAT JSH GIVES US FREEDOM TO PUT UP MOST THINGS
WITHIN REASON........


ITS A WONDERFUL WAY TO EXPRESS YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT THE PIC IS!


AS LONG AS IT IS OKED BY THE SITE!!!

CLEAVAGE..........PFFFFFFFFFFFT!

BOOBS ARENT EVERYTHING!!!

(((((((((((((((((MIKEY))))))))))))))))))





NO YOU DIDNT SAY THAT OUT LOUD????

I will probably get shot fot this, but to me, cleavage is nice but not
something I would base a relationshipon, it is the whole person I am
interested in.I had a wife that had a lot of cleavage, and inside she
was black as coal, if you know what I mean. Me, I like too see a lady,
with a nice dress or a blouse, with just a little hint of cleavage, a
pretty face and a good personality, a sense of humor, honest.To me that
is sexier than showing it all (Cleavage).SOmetimes when I see a pic of a
lady, showing it all, it makes me think, that in their mind, that is all
they have going for them and that is what every man wants, , but for me,
that is not it.

I just wanted to clarify things that I was not able to last night, as my
connection got shut down...
In the context of what the OP was stating... of the subject of being
competition of sorts....cleavage or no...
I don't think that it is a competition and taking into that into account
said what I said. Was no way stating that I thought it wrong...
And yes Sheila, I don't beleive that anyone has the right to say rude
and sexual remarks just because a cleavage picture is up or even a
bikini shot. Or even for that matter speak those words at all.... That's
ridiculous that anyone thinks they have the right to do so. And it
certainly is unwarranted in any situation...Although as we both know
there are people out there that will be rude and nasty..
There are many beautiful women on this site, and each has the freedom to
put up whatever pictures they feel like putting up without fear of rude
and nasty remarks, whether it be from men or women.....
But within the context of little boobs, big boobs and competition...I
don't believe that it's about that...it was spoken in jest

I say to each his own...If someone has the confidence to show
them...then KUDOS...AS for myself...It's a private matter!!!!!!!

ALLLLL DAY ,EVERYDAY LOL.
BOOOBIESS LOL

well i wear sting tops at home but when i go out i wear something to
cover them up lol

cover mine...gravity is not a girls best friend!

i hear yas

we have post your cleavage day so yes put'um out there or in or how ever
you ladies do that to them we likey

<---his push up bra is in the wash.....

AWWWWWWWEEEEEEEEEEE Ken...It figures!!!!!!!!

JJ? you made me think of a very funny joke