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Topic: Lets go topicless... - part 34
gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 08/08/09 10:11 AM
i breed and show them, at the moment i only have 4 but normally i have 14-18, however i lost my house and kennels to a fire last year (by a psycho ex) so have had to down size (me & all the dogs got out) Lord. What happened to the ex. well................after pleading mental breakdown and alcoholism he got off and bound over for good behaviour! Altho banned from contacting me and my sis (threatened to kill her too) meantime i'm prozac'd up to the eyeballs!!!! but hey ho, life goes on

5x10 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 9017	Sat 08/08/09 10:12 AM
i breed and show them, at the moment i only have 4 but normally i have 14-18, however i lost my house and kennels to a fire last year (by a psycho ex) so have had to down size (me & all the dogs got out) Lord. What happened to the ex. well................after pleading mental breakdown and alcoholism he got off and bound over for good behaviour! Altho banned from contacting me and my sis (threatened to kill her too) meantime i'm prozac'd up to the eyeballs!!!! but hey ho, life goes on Did he do this with "YOU" in the house? OMG!!!!!

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sat 08/08/09 10:12 AM
walmart bought our biggest chain 'asda' "now part of the wal-mart family"! but seriously haggis and steak pie is my fave Well Fife I don't think you have to worry about sharing. I'd rather have Veal Parm I would rather have anything else! Of course, if haggis was my choice, then I wouldn't have a weight issue anymore! I would lose weight fast.. Hey Kathi how yah been :)

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sat 08/08/09 10:14 AM
Wow nice looking group of hounds. Win many ribbons with them? yeah top breeder and the young red n white one on there just won best puppy & best scottish exhibit at his 1st show so i'm happy Sweet :)

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sat 08/08/09 10:16 AM
i breed and show them, at the moment i only have 4 but normally i have 14-18, however i lost my house and kennels to a fire last year (by a psycho ex) so have had to down size (me & all the dogs got out) Lord. What happened to the ex. well................after pleading mental breakdown and alcoholism he got off and bound over for good behaviour! Altho banned from contacting me and my sis (threatened to kill her too) meantime i'm prozac'd up to the eyeballs!!!! but hey ho, life goes on Did he move away or do you have to deal with him being close by.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 08/08/09 10:18 AM Edited by gayfifer on Sat 08/08/09 10:19 AM
i breed and show them, at the moment i only have 4 but normally i have 14-18, however i lost my house and kennels to a fire last year (by a psycho ex) so have had to down size (me & all the dogs got out) Lord. What happened to the ex. well................after pleading mental breakdown and alcoholism he got off and bound over for good behaviour! Altho banned from contacting me and my sis (threatened to kill her too) meantime i'm prozac'd up to the eyeballs!!!! but hey ho, life goes on Did he do this with "YOU" in the house? OMG!!!!! no but he thought i was! what happened was he beat me up(no big deal)but then he attacked a dog with a metal bar(big deal)so i locked him out and called the police, who arrested him. then let him go at 2am(weird hour) but they called me and said he was free(my word against his)anyway my friend took me and all the dogs in overnight as i was upset. nxt i know the police find me and say the property is burned to the ground. re arrested him and he confessed. so i have absolutely NO faith whatsoever in the law! he now lives 4miles away but i've never seen him.

5x10 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 9017	Sat 08/08/09 10:23 AM
i breed and show them, at the moment i only have 4 but normally i have 14-18, however i lost my house and kennels to a fire last year (by a psycho ex) so have had to down size (me & all the dogs got out) Lord. What happened to the ex. well................after pleading mental breakdown and alcoholism he got off and bound over for good behaviour! Altho banned from contacting me and my sis (threatened to kill her too) meantime i'm prozac'd up to the eyeballs!!!! but hey ho, life goes on Did he do this with "YOU" in the house? OMG!!!!! no but he thought i was! what happened was he beat me up(no big deal)but then he attacked a dog with a metal bar(big deal)so i locked him out and called the police, who arrested him. then let him go at 2am(weird hour) but they called me and said he was free(my word against his)anyway my friend took me and all the dogs in overnight as i was upset. nxt i know the police find me and say the property is burned to the ground. re arrested him and he confessed. so i have absolutely NO faith whatsoever in the law! he now lives 4miles away but i've never seen him. First of all fifer, abuse IS A BIG DEAL....no one has the right to hurt another, human or animal! And altho my brother is a policeman, the cops in my town....well I tend to agree with you about not having faith in them...I've seen a few things too. I am glad that you got away from him before he hurt you really bad, and I am glad that you have enough self esteem to stay away from him!!! As for your meds, I am glad that you sought help and didn't try to deal with this violence alone!

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 08/08/09 10:32 AM Edited by gayfifer on Sat 08/08/09 10:33 AM
to be honest it's all in the past and don't bother me anymore and i don't even think about it. this must be the 1st time i've told the story outside my immediate circle now i think of it and it looks bad when i see it written down! but i'm ok with it all seriously. besides we all have our crosses to bear. however legally we are still married.

delilady Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 23825	Sat 08/08/09 10:36 AM
to be honest it's all in the past and don't bother me anymore and i don't even think about it. this must be the 1st time i've told the story outside my immediate circle now i think of it and it looks bad when i see it written down! but i'm ok with it all seriously. besides we all have our crosses to bear. however legally we are still married. Shame on the law but my hat is off to you for not letting this incident-no matter how tragic-rule your life. You should divorce him though. Who knows when he will go psycho again and you don't want to be tied into the drama

5x10 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 9017	Sat 08/08/09 10:39 AM
Sometimes, it's just good to say things out loud....good for the soul. I am honestly happy that you can deal with it now, but it must have been very tramatic at the time.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sat 08/08/09 10:39 AM
Oh you can legally marry in Scotland didn't know that. Are you filing for divorce or just don't care to right now? Do you feel since your on meds you might have PTSD? I ask because I do. Better now tho time heals allot.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 08/08/09 10:39 AM
to be honest it's all in the past and don't bother me anymore and i don't even think about it. this must be the 1st time i've told the story outside my immediate circle now i think of it and it looks bad when i see it written down! but i'm ok with it all seriously. besides we all have our crosses to bear. however legally we are still married. Shame on the law but my hat is off to you for not letting this incident-no matter how tragic-rule your life. You should divorce him though. Who knows when he will go psycho again and you don't want to be tied into the drama well i have no hard feelings and i'm a better person for it. if he asks for divorce i will do it but he did say he would kill me if i divorced him and as i have NO intention of EVER getting involved with a man again it don't bother me.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 08/08/09 10:41 AM
whats PTSD carol?

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sat 08/08/09 10:43 AM
to be honest it's all in the past and don't bother me anymore and i don't even think about it. this must be the 1st time i've told the story outside my immediate circle now i think of it and it looks bad when i see it written down! but i'm ok with it all seriously. besides we all have our crosses to bear. however legally we are still married. Shame on the law but my hat is off to you for not letting this incident-no matter how tragic-rule your life. You should divorce him though. Who knows when he will go psycho again and you don't want to be tied into the drama well i have no hard feelings and i'm a better person for it. if he asks for divorce i will do it but he did say he would kill me if i divorced him and as i have NO intention of EVER getting involved with a man again it don't bother me. Your kind of young never to get involved again. I did feel like that for 4 years though. I understand.

5x10 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 9017	Sat 08/08/09 10:45 AM Edited by 5x10 on Sat 08/08/09 10:47 AM
AHHHHH fifer, you may feel like that now, but you are such a wonderful man, you deserve to find love again and be respected, cherished, and loved! We all do!

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sat 08/08/09 10:46 AM
whats PTSD carol? Post Tramatic Stress Disorder

delilady Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 23825	Sat 08/08/09 10:47 AM
to be honest it's all in the past and don't bother me anymore and i don't even think about it. this must be the 1st time i've told the story outside my immediate circle now i think of it and it looks bad when i see it written down! but i'm ok with it all seriously. besides we all have our crosses to bear. however legally we are still married. Shame on the law but my hat is off to you for not letting this incident-no matter how tragic-rule your life. You should divorce him though. Who knows when he will go psycho again and you don't want to be tied into the drama well i have no hard feelings and i'm a better person for it. if he asks for divorce i will do it but he did say he would kill me if i divorced him and as i have NO intention of EVER getting involved with a man again it don't bother me. Well can understand how you feel. i am only separated for 2 months but the marriage was bad for a long time. He threatened me a lot but never acted on it-maybe cause my two sons told him that although they love him if he ever laid a hand on me they would beat the crap out of him. I don't wish him any bad either-it is what it is. I'm glad to be away from him and can't imagine putting myself in a relationship where that could happen again. I'll stick with my friendships and leave romance to those who are braver than I

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 08/08/09 10:48 AM
whats PTSD carol? Post Tramatic Stress Disorder i don't know what i have, all i know is i'm happy and logic tells me i should be more upset about what happened so i'm guessing its the pills

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 08/08/09 10:49 AM
to be honest it's all in the past and don't bother me anymore and i don't even think about it. this must be the 1st time i've told the story outside my immediate circle now i think of it and it looks bad when i see it written down! but i'm ok with it all seriously. besides we all have our crosses to bear. however legally we are still married. Shame on the law but my hat is off to you for not letting this incident-no matter how tragic-rule your life. You should divorce him though. Who knows when he will go psycho again and you don't want to be tied into the drama well i have no hard feelings and i'm a better person for it. if he asks for divorce i will do it but he did say he would kill me if i divorced him and as i have NO intention of EVER getting involved with a man again it don't bother me. Well can understand how you feel. i am only separated for 2 months but the marriage was bad for a long time. He threatened me a lot but never acted on it-maybe cause my two sons told him that although they love him if he ever laid a hand on me they would beat the crap out of him. I don't wish him any bad either-it is what it is. I'm glad to be away from him and can't imagine putting myself in a relationship where that could happen again. I'll stick with my friendships and leave romance to those who are braver than I

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sat 08/08/09 10:52 AM
whats PTSD carol? Post Tramatic Stress Disorder i don't know what i have, all i know is i'm happy and logic tells me i should be more upset about what happened so i'm guessing its the pills Well sounds like you found the right meds then. Just might be your hanlding it okay. Some have a better tolerants to things.