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Topic: is it weird...
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Sun 08/02/09 09:12 AM
well im with you both, fife and billy (fear)


im not here to "date"


however, if the right person comes knocking at my door, or "screen"

im not pushing them away either


ya know what i mean?

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Sun 08/02/09 09:14 AM




fife.......

better question is

is it weird to be on a dating site, not want to date, and let people know you dont want to date?


Again, it is what I do...therefore by classification it is weird. Sorry guys, I screwed it up for you.smokin


no i agree with u fear it's just someone who emailed me asked what the hell i was doing here then?!



Oh Honey! How many times have I told you...when you get a creepy email, just...uh..."blow" 'em off...:wink: laugh


eeeeeeeewwwwwwwww

not me

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Sun 08/02/09 09:14 AM
Edited by papersmile on Sun 08/02/09 09:14 AM
I just ask em why they think it's any business of theirs and why they think I care what they think



i'd like to but they usually block me like a coward right after they send off the insult.

so then i usually post their comments in a thread!

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Sun 08/02/09 09:17 AM
and then they see papersmiles picture on my profile and realize that they dont stand a chance and they go away and leave me alone

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Sun 08/02/09 09:17 AM
haha

what do you want? laugh

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Sun 08/02/09 09:19 AM

well im with you both, fife and billy (fear)


im not here to "date"


however, if the right person comes knocking at my door, or "screen"

im not pushing them away either


ya know what i mean?


I think that goes for all of us here on Mingle that aren't already in a relationship or married.

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Sun 08/02/09 09:27 AM
flowerforyou I think its fine flowerforyou

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Sun 08/02/09 09:28 AM
This is not just a dating site....its a SOCIAL NETWORK...

Ppl come on here for various reasons, mines is to chat with Dan and keep up with friends, nothing more.

And no, its not weird being on a social network!

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Sun 08/02/09 09:28 AM



lol...since you haven't been kicked off i guess it's ok...i use mingle to do just that...i can mingle with y'all and still be here doing the mom thing:banana:


yup gives me a couple minutes of break between feeding the troops and bathing them.I dont think it's wierd at all!Although then again i'm prolly not the best person to ask what wierd is...


lol i'm glad i just have to mediate and feed them...and why am i forbidden to even talk to them thru the keyhole of the bathroom door when they're bathing or whatever they do in thereill but when i'm in there they just waltz right in babbling on about whatever's on their little minds at the time???


rofl rofl oh i soooo hear you on this one....i'm always like AHEM!!!!can i have some privacy please!!

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Sun 08/02/09 09:28 AM
the beauty of american sites for me is i'm so far away so when i get hit on it's not usually a problem, it's generally uk ppl who are rude to me - not that i'm saying i can't handle rude! pitchfork

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Sun 08/02/09 09:30 AM

the beauty of american sites for me is i'm so far away so when i get hit on it's not usually a problem, it's generally uk ppl who are rude to me - not that i'm saying i can't handle rude! pitchfork



Oh Babe! It's just cuz you're soooooo HAWT! Don't let it bother your pretty lil head!

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Sun 08/02/09 09:31 AM

This is not just a dating site....its a SOCIAL NETWORK...

Ppl come on here for various reasons, mines is to chat with Dan and keep up with friends, nothing more.

And no, its not weird being on a social network!


we all know that, cause we've been around for awhile.

truthfully though, when i joined, i joined a dating site and knew nothing about other aspects of the place.

surely the newcomers to online dating aren't aware of the interaction between friends and forum posters.

what bothers me though is the haughty tone they take in telling you that you don't belong.

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Sun 08/02/09 09:33 AM


This is not just a dating site....its a SOCIAL NETWORK...

Ppl come on here for various reasons, mines is to chat with Dan and keep up with friends, nothing more.

And no, its not weird being on a social network!


we all know that, cause we've been around for awhile.

truthfully though, when i joined, i joined a dating site and knew nothing about other aspects of the place.

surely the newcomers to online dating aren't aware of the interaction between friends and forum posters.

what bothers me though is the haughty tone they take in telling you that you don't belong.


drinker

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Sun 08/02/09 09:41 AM

...to be on a dating site when u don't want to date or is that ok?


I am just here making friends. Dating is pointless!

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Sun 08/02/09 09:43 AM

This is not just a dating site....its a SOCIAL NETWORK...

Ppl come on here for various reasons, mines is to chat with Dan and keep up with friends, nothing more.

And no, its not weird being on a social network!


now see i treat it as a social network but some ppl bite ur head off when u call it that!

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Sun 08/02/09 09:44 AM
I don't care if all the people here don't want to date. Be nice if more did but most are too far away anyway. Too me it is just company more than anything. The diversity is what makes it interesting. Anybody be mean to you Gayfifer tell them you have a lot of friends here to go play in traffic.

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Sun 08/02/09 09:45 AM
I treat it as my favorite corner pub and when I walk in everybody says "Hi Norm"

and laugh at the weirdos that wander in off the street and try to chat up the regulars

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Sun 08/02/09 09:46 AM

I don't care if all the people here don't want to date. Be nice if more did but most are too far away anyway. Too me it is just company more than anything. The diversity is what makes it interesting. Anybody be mean to you Gayfifer tell them you have a lot of friends here to go play in traffic.


drinker i do mean back devil

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Sun 08/02/09 09:57 AM
Hello from Idaho! I don't see anything wrong with it.. This place and the nice people have helped me thru some rough times and I appreciate that and I love making new friends.. have visited with 2 of them already on my trip and will meet up with another one here and maybe Kyle(longhairbiker)again in Sturgis on the way back.. Also hoping to meet up with Lex, fear and Sully in the Chicago area...

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Sun 08/02/09 03:34 PM

...to be on a dating site when u don't want to date or is that ok?


I'm not weird.....I'm 'gifted'.

bigsmile

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