So I have this problem, the women I meet that can carry a conversation and have fun and not take things to serious become my life long friends. The women I meet that can have fun and only care about american idol or E T.V. I start a realationship with and it last six months. I try to break the cycle but find that it is hard. True story the last girl I dated only read goose bumps or trash mags and she was 29. It gets lonely when you get picky than you settle and it never works out. Can anyone give me other options than the bar or friends hooking me up?

Just keep doing what your doing in the way of putting yourself out there.


Everyones not completely wierd.

Have you verified this????

You have a warped perspective of what makes a desirable 'mate' is all.

Somewhere in there, you see intelligence and maturity as 'stable'...but not sexy.

Somewhere in there, you see irresponsible as sexy...desirable.


One is threatening to someone who is not mature and 'stable' themselves..the other... a no brainer...no 'work' required.

It's not gender specific.



I am a very stable and mature person who has an excellent sense of self. It's not that I think It's gender specific just the women I seem to date. I do agree with your view to some extent but I hardly feel threatened by a woman with brains and maturity In fact It's a turn on. As far as putting in the work required I think It's harder with the other because alot of the times you have to come down to their level and that can be taxing.