Why is it that everyone you view on this site that's the least bit interesting hasn't been seen for over a month? They should automatically delete profiles that haven't been active for longer that 30 days. Then the members who are active only want to play psychotic head games. We are here to meet other singles people, not start a bunch of drama to add to the over dramatic lives you already live. I don't mean to psychoanalyze anyone, but leave the problems in your life at home.

Read the forums?

I'm a member that doesn't want to play psychotic games.

I wasn't on here for awhile when my computer died. I'm glad that they didn't deactivate me.

There is a way to get deactivated easily and that is by breaking the rules which will result in you getting banned for a long time.

You used to be able to deactivate your own profile in the past but then you could reactivate it when you returned not sure if you still can or not. Either way Deactivation and deleting the information is not the same thing. Typically the way websites that are advertised as free will never delete your information as that is that information that they sell to others to make money off of. I am not saying that is what they do here but it is possible.

Have you ever read the agreements of sites like Amazon they consider their customer information to be part of their company assets which allows them to sell it for profit to others as part of their data mining operation as other companies will buy it from them to market their products to you. that is how junk mail and spam tend to proliferate.

Not sure if this was what you wanted to hear or if this is even in the right topic now that I replied in a technical way like that it might be better off in a different section of the forum. Either way hope it helps