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Topic: i need advice on how to get a girlfriend and dating
malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Fri 07/31/09 06:35 PM
still invisible............ um ok....

malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Fri 07/31/09 06:35 PM
I would try to put myself in the perspective of a young woman and see what you are offering in your profile that might appeal to her. honestly i don't know..

malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Fri 07/31/09 06:40 PM
and i really wish women would be honest with me i'd kinda perfer that women say that im ugly,than have a woman say im attractive but lying... i know im ugly and oh well thats how i was made. i know about confidence but..,if the woman does not like you no confidence in the world will have her like you..bottom line if she doesn't like you then..she doesn't like you... just saying

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Fri 07/31/09 06:41 PM
this thread is kinda like someone walking into a bar, unplugging the jukebox then standing up on the table and shouting out..... "LISTEN UP EVERYONE! CAN I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION!? i need your advice on picking up a girlfriend in this place" a sign of confidence...LOL!

malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Fri 07/31/09 06:42 PM
this thread is kinda like someone walking into a bar, unplugging the jukebox then standing up on the table and shouting out..... "LISTEN UP EVERYONE! CAN I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION!? i need your advice on picking up a girlfriend in this place" a sign of confidence...LOL! well not in this place but...in life in general..

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Fri 07/31/09 06:42 PM
i know about confidence but..,if the woman does not like you no confidence in the world will have her like you..bottom line if she doesn't like you then..she doesn't like you... just saying Very true...and a realistic outlook. As to the first part of your post... Ugly compared to who? If a woman finds you attractive....that's her choice....her view. And it really is in the eye of the beholder....

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 07/31/09 06:43 PM
this thread is kinda like someone walking into a bar, unplugging the jukebox then standing up on the table and shouting out..... "LISTEN UP EVERYONE! CAN I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION!? i need your advice on picking up a girlfriend in this place" a sign of confidence...LOL! well not in this place but...in life in general.. You're not ugly.

malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Fri 07/31/09 06:43 PM
i know about confidence but..,if the woman does not like you no confidence in the world will have her like you..bottom line if she doesn't like you then..she doesn't like you... just saying Very true...and a realistic outlook. As to the first part of your post... Ugly compared to who? If a woman finds you attractive....that's her choice....her view. And it really is in the eye of the beholder.... well many women do say that im very ugly...

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Fri 07/31/09 06:45 PM
this thread is kinda like someone walking into a bar, unplugging the jukebox then standing up on the table and shouting out..... "LISTEN UP EVERYONE! CAN I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION!? i need your advice on picking up a girlfriend in this place" a sign of confidence...LOL!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Fri 07/31/09 06:46 PM
i know about confidence but..,if the woman does not like you no confidence in the world will have her like you..bottom line if she doesn't like you then..she doesn't like you... just saying Very true...and a realistic outlook. As to the first part of your post... Ugly compared to who? If a woman finds you attractive....that's her choice....her view. And it really is in the eye of the beholder.... well many women do say that im very ugly... There's a beautiful face and body...with an ugly nature... then there's a beautiful heart and nature housed in an ordinary face and body.... A woman who calls you ugly, and is referring to your looks, is showing more about herself, through her own words...

malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Fri 07/31/09 06:50 PM
i know about confidence but..,if the woman does not like you no confidence in the world will have her like you..bottom line if she doesn't like you then..she doesn't like you... just saying Very true...and a realistic outlook. As to the first part of your post... Ugly compared to who? If a woman finds you attractive....that's her choice....her view. And it really is in the eye of the beholder.... well many women do say that im very ugly... There's a beautiful face and body...with an ugly nature... then there's a beautiful heart and nature housed in an ordinary face and body.... A woman who calls you ugly, and is referring to your looks, is showing more about herself, through her own words... yeah one female a few days ago said i should just turn gay or get a hooker... 1st off in order for a man to be gay he has to have a sexual attraction toward other men...and i don't have that..so no im not gay.. 2nd i don't want a hooker..im not trying to catch an STD..plus im looking for like a wifey type..(if possible)

malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Fri 07/31/09 06:52 PM
this thread is kinda like someone walking into a bar, unplugging the jukebox then standing up on the table and shouting out..... "LISTEN UP EVERYONE! CAN I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION!? i need your advice on picking up a girlfriend in this place" a sign of confidence...LOL! but you know i should try it when im drunk so i could get some laughs at out of

mischievouskttn Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 614	Fri 07/31/09 07:06 PM
this thread is kinda like someone walking into a bar, unplugging the jukebox then standing up on the table and shouting out..... "LISTEN UP EVERYONE! CAN I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION!? i need your advice on picking up a girlfriend in this place" a sign of confidence...LOL! Not every man is lucky enough to have a woman pursue them relentlessly until all the fight is beaten out of them, like you did!

malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Fri 07/31/09 07:20 PM
i find this kinda funny in a good way

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Fri 07/31/09 09:45 PM
for starters you could put your tongue back in your mouth yeah i did..its just a funny pic that i have..thats when im happy. but thanks. well writer_gurl seemed to like the pic...lol I did like the pic cause it is random and not posed

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Fri 07/31/09 09:46 PM
i know about confidence but..,if the woman does not like you no confidence in the world will have her like you..bottom line if she doesn't like you then..she doesn't like you... just saying Very true...and a realistic outlook. As to the first part of your post... Ugly compared to who? If a woman finds you attractive....that's her choice....her view. And it really is in the eye of the beholder.... well many women do say that im very ugly... If they say you are ugly I will punch them in the face

malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Sat 08/01/09 08:54 AM
i know about confidence but..,if the woman does not like you no confidence in the world will have her like you..bottom line if she doesn't like you then..she doesn't like you... just saying Very true...and a realistic outlook. As to the first part of your post... Ugly compared to who? If a woman finds you attractive....that's her choice....her view. And it really is in the eye of the beholder.... well many women do say that im very ugly... If they say you are ugly I will punch them in the face thanks but i doubt it would do me any good...but thanks its the thought that counts.

malektaus Joined Wed 07/15/09 Posts: 164	Sat 08/01/09 08:59 AM
also is there anything i should change in my profile in the opinion of the women here??? it looks ok to me but i need a valid opinion...serious ones only.