you know what sucks, you get to love someone do all this stuff for them, propose to them, and i got 2 weeks till the wedding and she left me, hummm im not looking for sympathy but if any ladies would care to explain why a girl 2 weeks till you were about to get married, leave you and say she got bored of me, i don't understand it, can someone enlighten me ?

How long had you known each other?

How old was she?

Who paid for the wedding, etc?

Have you spoken to her parents?

umm for about a year

she just turned 18

me

no

Ok...

firstly ouch!!!

it hurts, big time.

Next, I think it's time to speak with her parents....if you are calm enough and feel comfortable enough to ask them for some insight....

Is there a pregnancy involved, or children?


I can only guess, and say a combination of being very young, and in love with the idea of love, and a white wedding, and the whole romantic notion of married happily ever after...caught up with reality, and she's dropped her bundle, got cold feet, and realised she is too young.

Again, I can only guess...

Who wanted to get married?

Who wanted to get married more?

lol
no no kids
she was like the first girl i really honestly can say i loved
so ya i hurt lol, just trying to make sense of it

we bolth did

me i guess

she doesn't know what she wants. thought it might be you but
changed her mind. possibly she really knows that it isn't right
so she had to bail. she is saving you a whole heap of heartache
by not forcing it. as hard as it is you probably should be
grateful that she is pulling the plug now rather than later.

your best move will be to lean on your family and friends.
b1tch about the situation and you have a fair complaint if she
led you on or was confused and you got stuck with the emotional
aftermath. get some counseling from a professional who will be
able to help you deal with it.

then, let it go. there are a lot and i mean a LOY of women out
there. many MANY MANY will be a better match for you.
find one of them and settle down and make babies. it will be
great to be a successful biological organism with one of the
really compatible mates for you out there. and good luck to her
too. everybody should be happy in the end.

but no whining except to your family and friends. they will
understand and support you and put up with it. it's their job.
whine the most at the counselor. they get paid for it. but
nobody else....whining is so....unattractive.

ok ok. you can whine here too. it's cybermingle. we can always
go over to sex and intimacy which used to be sex and dating.



now, you owe me a beer! that's how we do it.

Wow!!!!!!

That's the most I've ever seen you type!

And no youtube links, or news links...

are you ok?

Have you been drinking too much of this lemon and ginger tea too?

thanks well said, i apprichiate it, i guess i will never get Women :)

thanks well said, i apprichiate it, i guess i will never get Women :)

sorry for double post

Jess,
i was on a roll.

i've typed more than that and you know it.
i will admit that the lack of a link is egregious.

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Jonny,
you can and will get you some wommins eventually
and the great thing is that she is likely to actually
want to be the wommins for you next time...

that's why you see the counselor - he/she will be
able to 'splain it better up close and personal like.

your first task though is to survive the shock.
lay off the booze and other drugs and complain to the right people
and you will be fine.

there are lots of beautiful and smart wommins right cheer.
they all use mutual match though exclusively. and they DON'T
answer email. so...that's just the way it is...



sorry to hear though man. that sucks.

**** happens right lol well thanks, yall seem like a kool communitiy on here so know i have 2 forums to be on :)

but thanks S1owhand ya helped me sum

you're welcome. and yeah. "it's f***ed up. and there is no one
really to blame."

if you yell this ten times at the top of your lungs at your
counselor you will definitely feel better too! don't tell
them in advance. let it be a surprise.

you can tell them later that i made you do it. but don't tell
them where to find me - ok?

lol sounds like a plan

Beer time

that BEER is for ME!! i told you. LAY OFF THE BOOOZE!

oh well - one won't kill ya.

This is like being a voyeur in the boy's locker room...

so that's what does it for you?

I am not sure....I want one of them beers....

to pour over my head...

(we have a scary magnate planning on buying the site down there...VVVV)

down where? i don't see anything down there VVVV

In the intimately sexy section...

why didn't you say so?