I dated a guy for about a year, then I broke it off, he wanted to see me too much and I need my space. anyhow, I am missing him alot, but I can't really say I love him, the chemistry isn't there, but I sure miss him. why?

hmmmm...you didn't know what you had until you "needed your space"

cuz he's familiar to you, and he's warm, and he's a companion.

It could be a case of "better the devil you know...."

What I mean is, if you're longing for companionship and not finding what you're looking for, the exs might start looking good.

Because he was a part of your life silly!

Habit?

Yep and he was sooooooooooooo good to me. Man was I dumb.

It's so confusing sometime!!!!! These feelings, I hate them !!!

myabe because he was a nice guy

Is this the guy you posted about some time ago? The one that you had great friendship with but no chemistry, and were staying with because he could afford to take you to places you couldn't go on your own?

I think you ran because you were wanting to let all your walls down and love him...but your really feeling that your not ready for a life romance yet so ya evade your real hearts cries....
So now feeling he might be gone from you forever, your heart is saying,,,CALL HIM...before he's gone forever...

Just my assessment and we have never talked here yet..

Right or wrong, but please, think it through and open your mind to your heart before you say your answer....

Doesnt mean you two cant be great friends!!! I dated a girl for 4 years....It was great til the last year. We fought and didnt have chemistry anymore. Needless to say, we arent together. but me and her are great friends and talk often. Sometimes i think its just habit, but we both call each other for help with things cuz we know each other so well. I hope that helped???? I miss her, but we are better off not together.

I was wondering myself.....

So he was a nice guy then

If I am recalling the post correctly, and it is the same guy, yes.

I can really go anywhere I please, I am happy but still do miss him.

He said he can not be just friends with me, cause he loves me???

After a year then did you not love him?

If that is acknowledgment that it is the same guy, then my advice would be the exact same as it was in the original post. He sounds like a great guy and deserves to have someone who DOES love him. You said then - and now - that there is no chemistry there. And I wasn't being snide with my earlier comment. Your original post about him stated that you stayed with him because he could afford to take you places and do things that you otherwise couldn't, which is why you were debating staying vs. leaving.