Topic: What would u do?
Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:45 PM
What happens

When you feel the spark dying?

Do you try to rekindle it?
Do you turn and walk away?
Do you throw cold water on it?
Do you fight like hell for it?

kaylala's photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:47 PM
depends how strong the spark was in the first place?

papersmile's photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:51 PM
Edited by papersmile on Sat 07/25/09 02:51 PM
and whether said spark was reciprocated

Winx's photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:51 PM

What happens

When you feel the spark dying?

Do you try to rekindle it?
Do you turn and walk away?
Do you throw cold water on it?
Do you fight like hell for it?


Talk about it.

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Sat 07/25/09 02:53 PM
i block his numberlaugh

Dan99's photo
Sat 07/25/09 02:55 PM
I would do the robot

tacklebox1978's photo
Sat 07/25/09 03:22 PM

What happens

When you feel the spark dying?

Do you try to rekindle it?
Do you turn and walk away?
Do you throw cold water on it?
Do you fight like hell for it?


I ignored it. I was a fool . When the spark was dying my ex wife wanted marriage counsiling . I didn't. when I wanted it it was too late. she fell in love with my best friend who was like a brother to me. It haunts me every day. I've learned that some times you just have to let spark die, move on, and enjoy it for what it was.

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Sat 07/25/09 03:24 PM
I feel that if the person is good to you and is doing a decent job of being the person they presented themselves to be when you first met; then try to talk and/or work it out.

Like people have already stated, other factors come into play. How long have you been with him/her, how are they treating you?

I'm not assuming the OP is like this, but sometimes we can want the excitment, spark, thrill of a relationship more than the person themselves.

It comes down to what you want. If you're not sure then, yes, talk it out with the person.

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 07/25/09 03:25 PM


What happens

When you feel the spark dying?

Do you try to rekindle it?
Do you turn and walk away?
Do you throw cold water on it?
Do you fight like hell for it?


I ignored it. I was a fool . When the spark was dying my ex wife wanted marriage counsiling . I didn't. when I wanted it it was too late. she fell in love with my best friend who was like a brother to me. It haunts me every day. I've learned that some times you just have to let spark die, move on, and enjoy it for what it was.

:heart: wow. Sorry :heart:



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Sat 07/25/09 03:26 PM
Edited by keith1916 on Sat 07/25/09 03:27 PM
Sit down and talk about it and if that dont work part your ways b4 you start 2 hate each other

Lilypetal's photo
Sat 07/25/09 03:31 PM
Buy something lacy and red.

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Sat 07/25/09 03:37 PM

What happens

When you feel the spark dying?

Do you try to rekindle it?
Do you turn and walk away?
Do you throw cold water on it?
Do you fight like hell for it?
:wink: Well, first of all, YOU NEVER LET the FIRE turn into a SPARK,wink.. truly!!!!!


A good love, just keeps growing.....and the fire never fades.

I THINK??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

I guess if I knew THAT for sure,,,I would NEVER have been here alone
winkflowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 07/25/09 03:51 PM


What happens

When you feel the spark dying?

Do you try to rekindle it?
Do you turn and walk away?
Do you throw cold water on it?
Do you fight like hell for it?
:wink: Well, first of all, YOU NEVER LET the FIRE turn into a SPARK,wink.. truly!!!!!


A good love, just keeps growing.....and the fire never fades.

I THINK??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

I guess if I knew THAT for sure,,,I would NEVER have been here alone
winkflowerforyou



Well ya got me thinkin now!frustrated

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Sat 07/25/09 03:55 PM



What happens

When you feel the spark dying?

Do you try to rekindle it?
Do you turn and walk away?
Do you throw cold water on it?
Do you fight like hell for it?
:wink: Well, first of all, YOU NEVER LET the FIRE turn into a SPARK,wink.. truly!!!!!


A good love, just keeps growing.....and the fire never fades.

I THINK??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

I guess if I knew THAT for sure,,,I would NEVER have been here alone
winkflowerforyou



Well ya got me thinkin now!frustrated
PLEASE stop banging your head, that looks sooooo painful,,,

Here,,,you may use mine to bangfrustrated

THERE,,,now isn't THAT much better?


:wink: rofl rofl


pitchfork <--------HE made me do that!!!!lol

hereformore's photo
Sat 07/25/09 05:08 PM
For me it would depend on how long I have been with the person,
Would depend on what made the spark begin to die out. I.E. just boredom..I say fight for it. If he lied, cheated, etc..just depends on each persons tolerance to those things.
For me a spark would die quickly if he cheated. I'm not putting up with that crap ever again.