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Topic: What would u do?
Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 07/25/09 02:45 PM
What happens When you feel the spark dying? Do you try to rekindle it? Do you turn and walk away? Do you throw cold water on it? Do you fight like hell for it?

kaylala Joined Thu 07/23/09 Posts: 154	Sat 07/25/09 02:47 PM
depends how strong the spark was in the first place?

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Sat 07/25/09 02:51 PM Edited by papersmile on Sat 07/25/09 02:51 PM
and whether said spark was reciprocated

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sat 07/25/09 02:51 PM
What happens When you feel the spark dying? Do you try to rekindle it? Do you turn and walk away? Do you throw cold water on it? Do you fight like hell for it? Talk about it.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Sat 07/25/09 02:53 PM
i block his number

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Sat 07/25/09 02:55 PM
I would do the robot

tacklebox1978 Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 76	Sat 07/25/09 03:22 PM
What happens When you feel the spark dying? Do you try to rekindle it? Do you turn and walk away? Do you throw cold water on it? Do you fight like hell for it? I ignored it. I was a fool . When the spark was dying my ex wife wanted marriage counsiling . I didn't. when I wanted it it was too late. she fell in love with my best friend who was like a brother to me. It haunts me every day. I've learned that some times you just have to let spark die, move on, and enjoy it for what it was.

Benofzen Joined Sat 07/18/09 Posts: 126	Sat 07/25/09 03:24 PM
I feel that if the person is good to you and is doing a decent job of being the person they presented themselves to be when you first met; then try to talk and/or work it out. Like people have already stated, other factors come into play. How long have you been with him/her, how are they treating you? I'm not assuming the OP is like this, but sometimes we can want the excitment, spark, thrill of a relationship more than the person themselves. It comes down to what you want. If you're not sure then, yes, talk it out with the person.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 07/25/09 03:25 PM
What happens When you feel the spark dying? Do you try to rekindle it? Do you turn and walk away? Do you throw cold water on it? Do you fight like hell for it? I ignored it. I was a fool . When the spark was dying my ex wife wanted marriage counsiling . I didn't. when I wanted it it was too late. she fell in love with my best friend who was like a brother to me. It haunts me every day. I've learned that some times you just have to let spark die, move on, and enjoy it for what it was. wow. Sorry

keith1916 Joined Sun 06/14/09 Posts: 2057	Sat 07/25/09 03:26 PM Edited by keith1916 on Sat 07/25/09 03:27 PM
Sit down and talk about it and if that dont work part your ways b4 you start 2 hate each other

Lilypetal Joined Wed 02/25/09 Posts: 4052	Sat 07/25/09 03:31 PM
Buy something lacy and red.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 07/25/09 03:37 PM
What happens When you feel the spark dying? Do you try to rekindle it? Do you turn and walk away? Do you throw cold water on it? Do you fight like hell for it? Well, first of all, YOU NEVER LET the FIRE turn into a SPARK,wink.. truly!!!!! A good love, just keeps growing.....and the fire never fades. I THINK?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? I guess if I knew THAT for sure,,,I would NEVER have been here alone wink

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 07/25/09 03:51 PM
What happens When you feel the spark dying? Do you try to rekindle it? Do you turn and walk away? Do you throw cold water on it? Do you fight like hell for it? Well, first of all, YOU NEVER LET the FIRE turn into a SPARK,wink.. truly!!!!! A good love, just keeps growing.....and the fire never fades. I THINK?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? I guess if I knew THAT for sure,,,I would NEVER have been here alone wink Well ya got me thinkin now!

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 07/25/09 03:55 PM
What happens When you feel the spark dying? Do you try to rekindle it? Do you turn and walk away? Do you throw cold water on it? Do you fight like hell for it? Well, first of all, YOU NEVER LET the FIRE turn into a SPARK,wink.. truly!!!!! A good love, just keeps growing.....and the fire never fades. I THINK?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? I guess if I knew THAT for sure,,,I would NEVER have been here alone wink Well ya got me thinkin now! PLEASE stop banging your head, that looks sooooo painful,,, Here,,,you may use mine to bang THERE,,,now isn't THAT much better? <--------HE made me do that!!!!lol

hereformore Joined Sat 10/04/08 Posts: 832	Sat 07/25/09 05:08 PM
For me it would depend on how long I have been with the person, Would depend on what made the spark begin to die out. I.E. just boredom..I say fight for it. If he lied, cheated, etc..just depends on each persons tolerance to those things. For me a spark would die quickly if he cheated. I'm not putting up with that crap ever again.