Hi I recently joined as well and I say if you are a confident person and there is a difference in confidence and arrogance then just be happy with those who appreciate that fact alone. Anyone who is drawn to your profile will be drawn to it due to the honesty, sincerity and the humbleness displayed in it. You sound like a wonderful guy and if viewers can't appreciate that sweetheart they obviously don't deserve you! I wouldn't change a thing about yourself.........as far as the grammar goes it always helps to double check your entries before submitting so simply proof read your entry and you should have no problem with the spelling. It is easy to spell a word incorrectly when you are in a hurry or if you are anxious. Take care and I'd be a friend of yours anytime. Take care.