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Topic: A Problem of Attraction?
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Sun 07/19/09 05:42 PM

finding a person attractive is a far cry from 'igniting intense passion'.

I know i said that in my prior postflowerforyou
I was just commenting on someone's post, which is why i said finding someone attractive isn't a crime. We can't put eachother in bubble's but crossing the line is defintely where it ends.

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Sun 07/19/09 07:15 PM
I don't think there is anything wrong with finding others attractive.
Just because your on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu..
The problem would be if the other women are getting him worked up and she isn't anymore.... then he will end up cheating.
If he loves her he should find a way to rekindle the home fires.

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Sun 07/19/09 07:46 PM

finding a person attractive is a far cry from 'igniting intense passion'.


Absolutely!!!

And welcome home BTW!

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Sun 07/19/09 08:00 PM
if one is that crazy about other women, he eventually will do something, and is not happy, and feels trapped, so the best thing he can do is split up, and spare both from a really bad up-coming scene. the sooner the better......

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Sun 07/19/09 08:23 PM



All I can say is I feel sorry for his wife. I know alot of men find other women attractive but if they truly love the one they are with then they should not even be tempted to cheat/leave. If he is tempted then I would say he truly does not love his wife and should do her a favor and divorce her so she can find a real man that can truly love her and be faithful to her!


Amen. I second that. I third that.


I agree, set that woman free. My guess is he won't be happy with those other women either.

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Sun 07/19/09 08:34 PM

I have a question about attraction. If a guy is married but he finds himself intensely attracted to other women, what does this mean? Here is the break down. A friend of mine married this girl back in 2007, at the time he married her he did it genuinely. She is cute. But he finds other women more attractive than her at times. Some of these women ignite intense passion in him. Does this mean there is something wrong with his marriage, or is this simply how it is: that men just have to deal with this challenge? If he were to leave his wife for another woman due to his intense attraction for that other woman, would that be just?


I don't know if this has been asked yet, but how old are they? Yes, this does matter... very much.

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Sun 07/19/09 09:32 PM

I have a question about attraction. If a guy is married but he finds himself intensely attracted to other women, what does this mean? Here is the break down. A friend of mine married this girl back in 2007, at the time he married her he did it genuinely. She is cute. But he finds other women more attractive than her at times. Some of these women ignite intense passion in him. Does this mean there is something wrong with his marriage, or is this simply how it is: that men just have to deal with this challenge? If he were to leave his wife for another woman due to his intense attraction for that other woman, would that be just?


did he think that getting married would make him stop finding other women attractive? that's just stupid. however, it does mean he should have the maturity to know the difference between love and lust.

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