Topic: losing the love of your life
babygirl98270's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:22 PM
Lets go find some men to bash !!!!!!!!!! LOL

brokenwings30's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:23 PM
Edited by brokenwings30 on Thu 07/16/09 08:23 PM
I just need one to use for a few hours,then send him on his merry way:banana: :banana:

babygirl98270's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:24 PM
Exactly ... HEHEHE

brokenwings30's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:27 PM
oh god,please dont say hehegrumble

babygirl98270's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:28 PM
HAHAHA is that better LOL

brokenwings30's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:29 PM
yes yes,it islaugh

romee's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:55 PM
love suck'sill

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:57 PM
"love of your life"??

i have no idea what that is ohwell

freeonthree's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:59 PM

Im done with lovegrumble


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIwtzsvaVIM

brokenwings30's photo
Thu 07/16/09 08:59 PM

love suck'sill
yes it does romeegrumble

scttrbrain's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:04 PM
Love does not suck...only whiners would say that. Problem is; he may have been the love of your life..but you weren't the love of the his life.

Losing one to leaving is something you can do something about...but death is not.

Apparently he was not the love of your life...you are already talking about having another for a few hours? One does not get over someone they truely love that easy.

Sorry...just getting this off my chest. I have seen this same ole thing over and over..it pisses me off because love isn't throw away.

brokenwings30's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:06 PM
whoa

tngxl65's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:13 PM
First, I'm very sorry for what you're going through. Love can make you feel so good and so bad.

I don't believe in 'soulmates' or 'the love of your life'. What I do believe is there are people out there that are a good 'fit'. Some better than others. And some seem to fit so well you think they must be a part of you. Then when it's gone you have a void that feels like it can't be filled.

It will pass. And it will take time. And until then it will suck a little less each week and month. And eventually you'll find another someone that makes a good fit. And he will be likely be surprisingly different and yet make you feel just as comfortable and giddy as you felt before.

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

brokenwings30's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:16 PM

First, I'm very sorry for what you're going through. Love can make you feel so good and so bad.

I don't believe in 'soulmates' or 'the love of your life'. What I do believe is there are people out there that are a good 'fit'. Some better than others. And some seem to fit so well you think they must be a part of you. Then when it's gone you have a void that feels like it can't be filled.

It will pass. And it will take time. And until then it will suck a little less each week and month. And eventually you'll find another someone that makes a good fit. And he will be likely be surprisingly different and yet make you feel just as comfortable and giddy as you felt before.

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou
thanks,I hope you are rightflowerforyou

racerx767's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:23 PM
it will go away time heals all wounds, when i lost mine i didnt even like seeing other couples, but as time passed it got better and now we are friends and she tries to set me up with other women its kinda comical. just give it time and dont do the rebound!!! not good

babygirl98270's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:27 PM
OK let me set something straight!! WE WERE JOKING !!!!!!!!!!!! We know love is not disposable but holy cow (insert bad word here ) she needed to laugh and I think that was accomplished!! Her and I knew what we were talking about and it was done in fun not for real! I think its funnyt when single people try to give relationship advise ....





I lost the love of my life (thanks racerx767) no kleenex will ever wipe away your tears..

racerx767's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:33 PM
Edited by racerx767 on Thu 07/16/09 09:34 PM
wtf!! are you yelling at me?

babygirl98270's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:34 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


I am telling you I cant believe you filled for divorce so soon!

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:37 PM

whoa


I think I know maybe where she was coming from with that. She is widowed. I am also. Very hard to compare the two. And there isn't a need to is there? To me, pain is pain. Period. I'm sorry for what you're going through. flowerforyou

racerx767's photo
Thu 07/16/09 09:38 PM
well let me set something straight. im single because i choose to be!! and all i was doing was saying what helped me i didnt know you two were making fun of people that were trying to say what helped them get through their delima. guess we have to be careful about what threaads to answer.