Topic: what is love?
pokerface1200's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:25 PM
what is love? we can say it so easily but yet is there really any meaning behind it? do some of us really need it more than others? do some of us need it to validate who we are? as the song goes "what is love but a second hand emotion"-smokey and the miracles....how is it we can love but yet get our heart broke at the same time and then give up? is love really that cruel to us. yes we can love our family and our friends but the love we search for is cruel. what does love mean to you? does it have real meaning? have you loved others in the past who have broke your heart? and if so wouldnt that be enough to make you wonder a little bit? we have to ask ourselves is true love out there? can there be true love? why does love hurt sometimes? funny emotion love. we find a guy or girl whom we think we love but find out they dont love us. why is that? why would someone bother with someone who loves them but cant return the favor? why are some of us so quick to give up on love? they say love is patient and kind but is it really for you? i ask you...WHAT IS LOVE?

tacotuesday's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:31 PM
love is real and yes it has a meaning. although in our times and generation its shrinking fast. lets give the love spirit a lift:heart:

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:32 PM
smitten LOVE IS CORKS AND TRACTORS AND PICKLES OH MY!!!!!drool

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:34 PM
People talk about how great love is, but that's crap Love hurts.

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Thu 07/16/09 02:41 PM



...ain't talkin' bout love...smokin

silly's photo
Thu 07/16/09 02:44 PM

smitten LOVE IS CORKS AND TRACTORS AND PICKLES OH MY!!!!!drool


mirror mirror enough already with the corks,tractors and pickles.laugh

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Thu 07/16/09 03:03 PM



What is love
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
no more
What is love
Yeah

scttrbrain's photo
Thu 07/16/09 03:46 PM
Real or true love does exist. Only thing is; most want a quick fix blended with sex. It only makes for problems. It takes time and honesty to find it and hang onto it. If it is real love there is no hanging on though. It just is and it lasts.

People tend to have "lists" for "that one" that fills what they believe is right for them. Only problem with that is; what you may be looking for in that one person for you....may have an entirely different opinion of what it is they are looking for. So throw away the list of wants for your perfect person. Problems occur when we find the one that fits our list and we try and make a relationship out of it...when all along...you were not the one for them. Therefore the relationship wasn't real.

Quit trying so hard...it comes when you don't try and push it. It takes time most of the time. People tend to be on thier best behavior in a new relationship....then when the real them comes out...it's a problem. Because you fell in love with an idea and not the person that really is.

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Thu 07/16/09 03:57 PM

Real or true love does exist. Only thing is; most want a quick fix blended with sex. It only makes for problems. It takes time and honesty to find it and hang onto it. If it is real love there is no hanging on though. It just is and it lasts.

People tend to have "lists" for "that one" that fills what they believe is right for them. Only problem with that is; what you may be looking for in that one person for you....may have an entirely different opinion of what it is they are looking for. So throw away the list of wants for your perfect person. Problems occur when we find the one that fits our list and we try and make a relationship out of it...when all along...you were not the one for them. Therefore the relationship wasn't real.

Quit trying so hard...it comes when you don't try and push it. It takes time most of the time. People tend to be on thier best behavior in a new relationship....then when the real them comes out...it's a problem. Because you fell in love with an idea and not the person that really is.


I agree a 100% I always said that we have to stay who we are at the beginning and forever. People compromise to much who they are to impress and seduce others so when the incubation is over and they are themselves again then we wonder who is that person in front of me.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/17/09 08:05 PM

Real or true love does exist. Only thing is; most want a quick fix blended with sex. It only makes for problems. It takes time and honesty to find it and hang onto it. If it is real love there is no hanging on though. It just is and it lasts.

People tend to have "lists" for "that one" that fills what they believe is right for them. Only problem with that is; what you may be looking for in that one person for you....may have an entirely different opinion of what it is they are looking for. So throw away the list of wants for your perfect person. Problems occur when we find the one that fits our list and we try and make a relationship out of it...when all along...you were not the one for them. Therefore the relationship wasn't real.

Quit trying so hard...it comes when you don't try and push it. It takes time most of the time. People tend to be on thier best behavior in a new relationship....then when the real them comes out...it's a problem. Because you fell in love with an idea and not the person that really is.
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