Men keep asking what women want, why don't they respond to the believed triggers.

Men the reason you can't understand what makes us tick at this level is because women fall in love with the way a man makes them feel. No, not just during sex although that helps...lol

If you can help us to feel beloved, wanted, sexy, special, etc.. then you will be half way there. The other half of course is your reliablity, trustworthyness, etc...

I said help on the above paragraph because a woman needs to already feel these things on her own so she will not be too needy to put up with.

I'll try to give you men some examples and hopefully some of the other ladies here will do the same.

I like a positively attentive man, he notices people and things going on around him and has good things to say about them. This makes me feel like he cares about life and me. If he is negative about everything you always have to wonder what he is complaining about you when you aren't around. Not a good feeling. This is especially true if he is always negative about women in general. Even if you do not know her and he is referring to her as a whore by what she is wearing, a woman cannot feel good about it if she is of her right mind.

Even with the womens lib stuff, I can open doors for myself but it makes me feel special when he does it. Walking on the streetside of me when we are walking to protect me. Making sure all watch their language around me, not that I may not spout a cuss word on occasion but he makes sure I am not offended by others. Those gentlemanly qualities are a good way to make a lady feel special. We ladies know we can do it all ourselves but it is all about the way we feel.

Making sure I am okay by a phone call or asking me if we haven't spoken for a bit. Asking if I need help with the dishes or dusting or whatever, I will probably say no, but it is nice to have the ask. Makes us ladies feel like you care and what we do is important.

Being fair in considering time out with friends. If you spend time out with your friends consider that I need the same amount of time with mine. Also making time for our personal time. For example, "I am going to watch the game this afternoon but tonight I will be all yours, what would you like to do?" Makes us ladies feel important to you.

If you get angry and resort to name calling remember we will never forget what you said. Usually better if you can calm yourself and come at us with reason instead of hate. Just a thought here but how can you feel good around someone who recently referred to you as a ***** or a whore or any of the other choice names there are for women.

Okay ladies see you if you can think of more.



Hope this is helpful. I am posting it as a helpful topic. I really hope it doesn't turn bad.

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id make a mirror list of things women should be attentive to, but as a man i have better things to do... like grill a t-bone steak for dinner and absorb the lifeforce of a cow into my body

But.I agree.Love cow

OK. You will still go get me a beer, right?

This wasn't a list of what men should do, it was ideas on how to make a woman feel special.

Men want to know what ladies want. Here it is. It is not a tit for tat.

A fulfilled lady usually means a fulfilled man.

It is much easier to just ask what a person wants. Everyone is different so this really doesn't apply to what "women" want. This applies to what you want. Kinda like Leave it to Beaver, if you ask me.

If I feel loved and cared for and am not busy at the time, sure, no problem.

Men and women are just not wired the same

We gotta learn that

Things would be so much easier ....

You are right I used myself as an example of how to make ladies feel special.

It is all about how a woman feels as to how she will respond to you (a man) so it is important to know what makes a woman feel special.

This was supposed to be for you to list those things that make you feel special done by a man.

I was just having some fun.

R U ready for your daily foot rub?

i've got the lotion

Woman (are wolverines) Men (are tazmanian devils) Alot has to happen to see eye to eye

i heart you.

marry me.

me like big strong t-bone grillin man.

Okay this wasn't about seeing eye to eye, this wasn't about the differences.

I WAS TRYING TO GET THE INFORMATION OUT THERE FOR ALL THOSE MEN WHO KEEP ASKING WHAT A WOMAN WANTS.

She wants to feel good around you, she wants to feel good knowing you, she wants to feel good going places with you, she wants to feel good having you in her corner, etc...

It is all about how a woman feels that makes her want a man.

There was no man bashing here. There was no judgemnts here.

If a man cares enough about women to care what they want, I am offering the information.

There will be differences in women, that is why I wanted them to contribute on here but I guess it is not going to happen.

Leave it to Beaver=

Didnt say you was man bashing(different guys from all around the world)Take things different as do woman.We all dont see eye to eye.But when we do we know it.Just saying emotions and feelings get involved sometime fast,slow,never.we are just two different genders

I know that was funny.

Sure don't see it in my post though???