Topic: Pros and Cons of dating someone 10-12 years younger
Slyther83's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:28 PM

Is it true that there is two diff views on this subject:

Its ok for an older man to date 10 yrs younger...

BUT

The woman is a freak (or freaky)if she walks around with a guy 10 years younger...





correct.

the same reason its ok for us dudes to be sluts but nasty for chicks.

sorry, chivalry may go in your favor, but these subjects do not... and that is what we call balance.

msmyka's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:35 PM
CONS:10-12 years younger and I'm going to jail scared

Tootsweet13's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:35 PM
For me, I don't usually date people that much older or younger than me. It's not about the age itself, it's about finding commonalities. When people are at different places in their lives, it can be difficult to find things in common, even a person's sense of humor is affected to some degree by their life experiences.


mscherbear's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:41 PM


Just wanted to know what the pros and cons are for dating when there is at least 10 years between the two people.

Anyone have any experience with this?




Not yet, but those are the only offers I'm getting sooooo
bigsmile


Same here! I may have to reconsider my position...

Slyther83's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:43 PM
i think i speak for most dudes in my age bracket of the mid 20's when i say yes, we do find women 10-15 years older attractive

Tretre1970's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:44 PM

i think i speak for most dudes in my age bracket of the mid 20's when i say yes, we do find women 10-15 years older attractive


Yes, but is it just for good sex or for an LTR?

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:46 PM

i think i speak for most dudes in my age bracket of the mid 20's when i say yes, we do find women 10-15 years older attractive



hey baby..:wink:

Slyther83's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:48 PM


i think i speak for most dudes in my age bracket of the mid 20's when i say yes, we do find women 10-15 years older attractive


Yes, but is it just for good sex or for an LTR?




idk, i find women in that demographic unapproachable.. i guess im just not ballsy enough to try, lol

Slyther83's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:49 PM


i think i speak for most dudes in my age bracket of the mid 20's when i say yes, we do find women 10-15 years older attractive



hey baby..:wink:




blushing flowerforyou

Tretre1970's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:51 PM



i think i speak for most dudes in my age bracket of the mid 20's when i say yes, we do find women 10-15 years older attractive


Yes, but is it just for good sex or for an LTR?




idk, i find women in that demographic unapproachable.. i guess im just not ballsy enough to try, lol


Most Woman in OUR demographic would be nicer than the younger ones I would think....


Slyther83's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:55 PM




i think i speak for most dudes in my age bracket of the mid 20's when i say yes, we do find women 10-15 years older attractive


Yes, but is it just for good sex or for an LTR?




idk, i find women in that demographic unapproachable.. i guess im just not ballsy enough to try, lol


Most Woman in OUR demographic would be nicer than the younger ones I would think....





the woman would have to be young at heart (which is a nice way of phrasing able to participate in a lot of the dumb crap the guy may do with himself and his friends) and the guy probably has to be more mature than his peers. theres probably a book on this somewhere.

Tretre1970's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:57 PM
lets see here....older man on couch watching tv or younger guy out with buddies at the bar....LOL

There has to be a middle ground in here somewhere. LOL

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 07/13/09 02:59 PM





i think i speak for most dudes in my age bracket of the mid 20's when i say yes, we do find women 10-15 years older attractive


Yes, but is it just for good sex or for an LTR?




idk, i find women in that demographic unapproachable.. i guess im just not ballsy enough to try, lol


Most Woman in OUR demographic would be nicer than the younger ones I would think....





the woman would have to be young at heart (which is a nice way of phrasing able to participate in a lot of the dumb crap the guy may do with himself and his friends) and the guy probably has to be more mature than his peers. theres probably a book on this somewhere.



this has not been helpful, I'll just get the book.what

Tretre1970's photo
Mon 07/13/09 03:01 PM
Ladylid2012 & mscherbear

We may need to research this further and then come back and share with everyone....


LOL

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 07/13/09 03:07 PM

Ladylid2012 & mscherbear

We may need to research this further and then come back and share with everyone....


LOL


bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

Jtevans's photo
Mon 07/13/09 03:17 PM
Cougars love love love

mscherbear's photo
Mon 07/13/09 03:19 PM

Ladylid2012 & mscherbear

We may need to research this further and then come back and share with everyone....


LOL


Yay! Then I would at least have an excuse for being a cougar! laugh drinker :banana:

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 07/13/09 03:19 PM

Cougars love love love



You wish Jt
:wink:

Tretre1970's photo
Mon 07/13/09 03:20 PM

Cougars love love love


and where did that loving term come from anyway.

Tretre1970's photo
Mon 07/13/09 03:20 PM

Cougars love love love


and where did that loving term come from anyway.