and how the hell is this well wishes???

this isn't well wishes.. this is awkward ****.

That's part of Family too.

Reuniteing with long lost family can be really great to really the pits. Go into with as few expectations as possible and a little reservation and it will be what it will be. I have some family ties now that I would not trade the woorld for. But in all honesty I have to add a couple that made life really miserable. Fractured families are not always hearts and flowers when they reunite. There are new rewards and rivalries and it is important to set your own boundries. You strike me as a well selected ambassador for your family. Good luck and great happiness in this role.

Family

I know the feeling...I had a thread about bad hair days & they moved it to Sex!