Topic: To be ignorned
joycro53's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:16 PM

your a cutie, he's a fool...good luck..Mr. right will come along when you least expect it....


Thank you....it is hard, just can't forget him overnight or the good times we had. But I know you are right

Tootsweet13's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:17 PM

Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope?


I have recently learned that the "silent treatment" or withholding love or affection is considered a form of emotional abuse.

4974's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:18 PM
been there...and you know what...now he is the one suffering, and i have moved on... JUSTICE

joycro53's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:19 PM
It does hurt like hell. Not being able to talk or hear from him...its worse than anything I have been thru in a while.

shoesmonkey's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:19 PM

Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope?
It's over. Move along with your life.

joycro53's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:21 PM


Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope?
It's over. Move along with your life.


I know you are all right, but it still hurts so much....I was alone for over two years then he came along and things were more than wonderful...then this. I have cried for a week.

4974's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:22 PM
i feel for you....the best answer..you fall off get right back on. go on some dates, mingle, meet some new guys..this to shall pass. i promise

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Wed 07/08/09 06:24 PM



Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope?
It's over. Move along with your life.


I know you are all right, but it still hurts so much....I was alone for over two years then he came along and things were more than wonderful...then this. I have cried for a week.
Just dont let it make you bitter, been there done that and its not worth it. you will be fine Im sure you have been through worse

joycro53's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:26 PM

i feel for you....the best answer..you fall off get right back on. go on some dates, mingle, meet some new guys..this to shall pass. i promise


Thanks so much for your caring words. Its nice to be able to talk about it without thinking I am the one who is wrong.

4974's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:26 PM
when you feel sad, hit me up...you can vent to me.

joycro53's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:27 PM




Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope?
It's over. Move along with your life.


I know you are all right, but it still hurts so much....I was alone for over two years then he came along and things were more than wonderful...then this. I have cried for a week.
Just dont let it make you bitter, been there done that and its not worth it. you will be fine Im sure you have been through worse


You are right, I have. This just caught me off guard, never expected this. He bought a home and is waiting to close, wanted me to move in when I was ready. All this gone now.

joycro53's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:28 PM

when you feel sad, hit me up...you can vent to me.


You are very sweet, thanks.

directandwrite's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:30 PM

Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope?



Okay I'm going to say this because I'm starting to notice a "trend" in it, even though, inevitably, someone will claim I am making a generalization, but I think this must be a guy thing....this is at least the third or fourth time I have heard/seen this done in the past month and it makes the woman very angry. My question is, why do you guys want to do this? If it's over or something is wrong, etc, can't you be men enough to come tell us or just say it instead of putting everything in freeze frame mode??? :angry: grumble

no photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:52 PM


Has anyone ever had a disagreement with the person they were dating and that person wouldn't call or talk with them for days? This man won't even tell me if its over or not, so I wait. This is the hardest thing I ever had to do, how do you cope?



Okay I'm going to say this because I'm starting to notice a "trend" in it, even though, inevitably, someone will claim I am making a generalization, but I think this must be a guy thing....this is at least the third or fourth time I have heard/seen this done in the past month and it makes the woman very angry. My question is, why do you guys want to do this? If it's over or something is wrong, etc, can't you be men enough to come tell us or just say it instead of putting everything in freeze frame mode??? :angry: grumble
try not to put us all in the same corner, when my lady friend walked out on me she wouldnt even pick up her phone when I called.. she just got a burr in her saddle and walked outohwell

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:56 PM

Its almost 5 months now, and he was the one who told me he loved me, and that I was so great for him....guess I was a fool.


You haven't spoken for 5 mos or dated for 5 mos?

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:56 PM
You pick up the phone
make the call
Ask
"is it over?"


Go from there....

directandwrite's photo
Wed 07/08/09 06:58 PM

You pick up the phone
make the call
Ask
"is it over?"


Go from there....



That's a swell idea but if you get his voicemail over and over again, and he never answers, then what???

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/08/09 07:00 PM


You pick up the phone
make the call
Ask
"is it over?"


Go from there....



That's a swell idea but if you get his voicemail over and over again, and he never answers, then what???


Go directly to his door

Keep a knockin

If after a few days. You know it's over!

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 07/08/09 07:01 PM
Been there, done that, sportin the tshirtdrinker After a week of the 'silent treatment'. I figured alright then an reclaimed my singlehood. I don't play games an I refuse to participate in themdrinker

directandwrite's photo
Wed 07/08/09 07:02 PM



You pick up the phone
make the call
Ask
"is it over?"


Go from there....



That's a swell idea but if you get his voicemail over and over again, and he never answers, then what???


Go directly to his door

Keep a knockin

If after a few days. You know it's over!



Sometimes it's not that simple...