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Topic: Am I attractive?
MikeCarbellano's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:21 PM
Now that I think about it, from all of my past girlfriends or even girls that are friends have never told me anything about my looks.

Am I attractive, cute, hot, or whatever?

If you don't, I still want to know, it won't break my heart or hurt my feelings. I also want to know to find out if I am aiming for people out of my league.

tanyaann's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:29 PM
If you love yourself and think that you are cute, does it really matter what others think?

writer_gurl's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:30 PM
I think anyone who drinks coffee is attractivedrinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:30 PM

Now that I think about it, from all of my past girlfriends or even girls that are friends have never told me anything about my looks.

Am I attractive, cute, hot, or whatever?

If you don't, I still want to know, it won't break my heart or hurt my feelings. I also want to know to find out if I am aiming for people out of my league.
smitten dreamysmitten

robert1652's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:34 PM


Now that I think about it, from all of my past girlfriends or even girls that are friends have never told me anything about my looks.

Am I attractive, cute, hot, or whatever?

If you don't, I still want to know, it won't break my heart or hurt my feelings. I also want to know to find out if I am aiming for people out of my league.
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As me

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:35 PM



Now that I think about it, from all of my past girlfriends or even girls that are friends have never told me anything about my looks.

Am I attractive, cute, hot, or whatever?

If you don't, I still want to know, it won't break my heart or hurt my feelings. I also want to know to find out if I am aiming for people out of my league.
smitten As dreamysmitten
As me
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MikeCarbellano's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:37 PM

If you love yourself and think that you are cute, does it really matter what others think?


Yes. I could think I am the hottest guy in the world, but if that is not what the other person thinks, it is pointless. That being said, you can't force them or make them think that I am hot...people are attracted to certain things, and you cannot change that. There must be some form of physical attraction there, because later on down the road you can't look them in the eyes and say "I love you," and really mean it.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:38 PM
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tanyaann's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:41 PM


If you love yourself and think that you are cute, does it really matter what others think?


Yes. I could think I am the hottest guy in the world, but if that is not what the other person thinks, it is pointless. That being said, you can't force them or make them think that I am hot...people are attracted to certain things, and you cannot change that. There must be some form of physical attraction there, because later on down the road you can't look them in the eyes and say "I love you," and really mean it.


But if you think it... it won't matter what other think. If you have confidence that you are attractive, then you will attract others that think so.

MikeCarbellano's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:42 PM
No real answers yet. I was looking more for a woman's response, lol. sad

By the way, old men drink coffee too. laugh

no photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:46 PM
I'm not in the mood to fluff egos today...Tanya is right...to thine own self be true.

MikeCarbellano's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:49 PM



If you love yourself and think that you are cute, does it really matter what others think?


Yes. I could think I am the hottest guy in the world, but if that is not what the other person thinks, it is pointless. That being said, you can't force them or make them think that I am hot...people are attracted to certain things, and you cannot change that. There must be some form of physical attraction there, because later on down the road you can't look them in the eyes and say "I love you," and really mean it.


But if you think it... it won't matter what other think. If you have confidence that you are attractive, then you will attract others that think so.


Pure confidence definitly helps, but won't always cut it. Personality does make somone more beautiful though.

MikeCarbellano's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:53 PM

I'm not in the mood to fluff egos today...Tanya is right...to thine own self be true.


Fluff egos? I am wondering what league I am in, and then you tell me you won't tell me because I would act macho and boast?

Uh, ok. I asked a question, and then I get an answer that doesn't pertain to it.

I am not mad, I think I just don't get the logic.

Dragoness's photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:56 PM
Well the fact you are asking means you are not confident enough to be happy with who you are and love and respect yourself enough to present yourself as less shallow. Physical attractiveness is only a fraction of the love between two people. When the physical attraction wears off and it always does, you had better have a stronger bond or the relationship is bye bye.

Second, there is no shooting above your league for all humans are equal and the same.

My opinion here of course.

no photo
Wed 07/08/09 12:57 PM
This is your SECOND "Rate Me" thread of the day & you don't get it? laugh

MikeCarbellano's photo
Wed 07/08/09 01:01 PM

Well the fact you are asking means you are not confident enough to be happy with who you are and love and respect yourself enough to present yourself as less shallow. Physical attractiveness is only a fraction of the love between two people. When the physical attraction wears off and it always does, you had better have a stronger bond or the relationship is bye bye.

Second, there is no shooting above your league for all humans are equal and the same.

My opinion here of course.


Maybe I am not happy with myself. I know I am not, but I have no idea why. In this case, why are there not posts on like this on the other "Am I hot?" threads?

People will be quick to answer "yes!" or "hot" in a heartneat on other topics, of course.

RKISIT's photo
Wed 07/08/09 01:02 PM
tap itsmokin

no photo
Wed 07/08/09 01:04 PM
Self-confidence is attractive. Women respond to it. Capiche?

MikeCarbellano's photo
Wed 07/08/09 01:04 PM

This is your SECOND "Rate Me" thread of the day & you don't get it? laugh


No. The first one was purely about my profile and how I can improve it.

This one is a totally seperate question regarding only to question a degree of my physical attraction.

earthytaurus76's photo
Wed 07/08/09 01:06 PM
I think your cute. bigsmile

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