Well, I've used many different dating sites and haven't found anyone yet. Barely anyone I meet seems to want to get to know each other. They just look for what looks good and if that one doesn't they move on. Oh, and some pics aren't even the person in the profile. So, I'm wondering what's the deal?

the pics in my profile well most of them anyhow are of me..and the what looks good thing well that is what we are here for..this is life...tis like buying a car...you don't buy it without a test drive if it does not feel right ya move on to the next one...

Well if ou post in the forums, and its not all complaints, but your friendly, and nice, people you will attract people.


These are MY pics of ME in my profile.


Remember, looks are God given, its not like a talent. Some people have em, some dont.

Just put your best foot forward. you KNOW which pictures of you are most attractive, it's part of the game, But have fun with it. You can come up with arguments of shallowness but I think showing you care about yourself, your health, your appearence says alot. If you take it so seriously that your clinging then it will show. Chat around, take risks tali=king to chics that you think are "out of your league'. nEspecially here, the more you converse with women the more you find out about yourself and what you are looking for, keep your standards but you MAY find that what you are looking for is not as specific as you first thought.

You MAY realize there are many different types and kinds that are attractive (in the deeper sense) and are attracted back.

Some unsolicited advice (please don't be miffed) a computer picture of you looking 'haphazard' isn't helping much. If you have a confident picture it will show....like I said, best foot forward. God bless brother and good luck...have fun with it.