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Topic: What Went Wrong?
Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/01/09 05:15 PM
It's nobodys buss. But my own


myteemouse's photo
Wed 07/01/09 05:17 PM


I don't ask, no. I do listen for warning phrases ("I only hit her those three times; she made more money than me, the money-hungry bioch; she had this disgusting little dog that mysteriously disappeared one day").




Oh Sunny!! I just got a mental image of hearing these phrases...

and that lil bell that goes...DING DING DING in my head!!!


laugh laugh laugh

"I need someone that understands and completes me, and he/she just couldn't get that! "

"I like to spend 24/7 with the person I love"

DING DING DING!!!!




Yeppers....ALWAYS listen to that little bell!!

Anton_k's photo
Wed 07/01/09 07:51 PM
Edited by Anton_k on Wed 07/01/09 07:51 PM

I still tryin to figure out what went wrong with my relationship. I can honestly say, I have no idea.

wow.. that sounds like mine ..one day things are fine next day i'm looking for a new house..

if things are going well enough between the two of you later in the relationship i think would be the time to ask when the other is a little more at easy ..but if they're a jerk it will stand out rather quickly.

auburngirl's photo
Wed 07/01/09 08:30 PM
Funny...I get asked it all of the time. I understand it though. Most people are curious as to what happened. It does not offend me. However, I don't drop all of the gory details on them. I suppose it is different for me.

darkowl1's photo
Wed 07/01/09 08:39 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Wed 07/01/09 08:41 PM
i don't mind.....i don't feel bad about it for i gave everything i had. no gory details to tell here, maybe sometime down the road, it was an experience, but i'll never be with someone that self absorbed again, lol. it was no fun:cry: ......i want fun!laugh i wanna blast!explode :banana: rofl

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 07/01/09 08:41 PM

When you're talking to or meeting someone for the first time...do you ask them what went wrong with their past relationships? Do you really expect them to say "I was a jerk...it's all my fault...!" What do you say when they ask you that inevitable question? Just wonderin'...


I usually just say the truth..you need 2 people to ruin a relationship anyway, so might as well as say it..the last one didn't love me and I was too much into her and stayed with her anyway instead of realizing that I was in a dead end relationship. I reap what I sow not sure if i deserve it, but certainly life sux and I learned from it.

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 07/01/09 09:07 PM
i dont get why people feel the need to delve into this kind of heavily personal information the first go around ya know?

i had a guy ask me how many men i slept with.

i told him ... "well if you count the prison guards... 379."

he choked on his steak and i laughed and told him just kidding.

its like come on people.. just enjoy the company for a lil bit before you inspect the skeletons in their closet.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/01/09 09:09 PM

When you're talking to or meeting someone for the first time...do you ask them what went wrong with their past relationships? Do you really expect them to say "I was a jerk...it's all my fault...!" What do you say when they ask you that inevitable question? Just wonderin'...


I don't care, usually they bring it up too me...when they ask me? I tell them the truth...I have no clue, not like people tend to outline why they broke up with you, well, at least not in Illinois or the Midwest in general.

krupa's photo
Wed 07/01/09 09:22 PM
Edited by krupa on Wed 07/01/09 09:24 PM
Actually, I kind of thought that you would use me like a chimp with a spanish fly beer bong..

It was so much nicer to meet...and just breathe that sigh of relief at being able to be comfortable with a real friend..with zero pressure...just to simply enjoy good company....

Que knows.......
So does Que2....

Wait a minute...I think I misread the question....

I guess the coffee & cocaine enemas are getting to me....

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 07/01/09 09:25 PM

Actually, I kind of thought that you would use me like a chimp with a spanish fly beer bong..

It was so much nicer to meet...and just breathe that sigh of relief at being able to be comfortable with a real friend..with zero pressure...just to simply enjoy good company....

Que knows.......
So does Que2....

Wait a minute...I think I misread the question....

I guess the coffee & cocaine enemas are getting to me....


oh my god are you muling?

adj4u's photo
Wed 07/01/09 09:28 PM
what went wrong in previous relationship you ask

why are you planning on acting like that

i guess this is over b4 it starts

enjoy i hope you find what you are looking for

drinker

krupa's photo
Wed 07/01/09 09:29 PM


Actually, I kind of thought that you would use me like a chimp with a spanish fly beer bong..

It was so much nicer to meet...and just breathe that sigh of relief at being able to be comfortable with a real friend..with zero pressure...just to simply enjoy good company....

Que knows.......
So does Que2....

Wait a minute...I think I misread the question....

I guess the coffee & cocaine enemas are getting to me....


oh my god are you muling?


Not since I went to Tijuanna last...but, i swear..I had no idea it was a mule....I was drunk and she smelled so nice...

no photo
Thu 07/02/09 06:46 AM

Actually, I kind of thought that you would use me like a chimp with a spanish fly beer bong..

It was so much nicer to meet...and just breathe that sigh of relief at being able to be comfortable with a real friend..with zero pressure...just to simply enjoy good company....

Que knows.......
So does Que2....

Wait a minute...I think I misread the question....

I guess the coffee & cocaine enemas are getting to me....



I actually thought of you when I started this thread, Krupa... I remember one of the first "deep" statements you made to me after we had our first phone convo 2yrs ago...something to the effect of "Damn! It is so nice to talk to a woman who doesn't dump all her personal garbage at my feet in the first sentence!" :wink:

no photo
Thu 07/02/09 06:52 AM

When you're talking to or meeting someone for the first time...do you ask them what went wrong with their past relationships? Do you really expect them to say "I was a jerk...it's all my fault...!" What do you say when they ask you that inevitable question? Just wonderin'...


She divorced me when I got 20 years, but I'm out now on good behavior.
BTW...are switchblades still illegal?laugh

TBRich's photo
Thu 07/02/09 12:26 PM
For some reason, people starting telling me their life stories. I think when people meet me, they can tell I am not the easiest person to live with.

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