Topic: everytime i hear something
doodlebuggrrl's photo
Sat 06/27/09 09:10 PM
from him {the X} i get hopeful knowing ill be downed again. so many hurtful things were said from him that always have me second guessing myself. Im kinda lost right now. I feel like ive missed so much. Its wierd. Like there should have been more.

bastet126's photo
Sat 06/27/09 09:13 PM
hurtful things that were said should be the reminder to move on. don't settle, find what makes you happy without the hurtful. flowerforyou

shellymc's photo
Sat 06/27/09 09:27 PM
people say hurtful things to make themselves feel better ..don't let anyone bring you down ...be happy that will show him what you are made of and that he didn't break you he made you stronger ...flowerforyou

IdAppreciate's photo
Sat 06/27/09 09:41 PM
Rent the movie "Living Out Loud" with Holly Hunter and Queen Latifah!
It always helps me get my strength back when I get sentimental and fool myself into believing that my X could ever be right for me...
Keep moving forward!
Much love!!!
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 06/27/09 09:48 PM

from him {the X} i get hopeful knowing ill be downed again. so many hurtful things were said from him that always have me second guessing myself. Im kinda lost right now. I feel like ive missed so much. Its wierd. Like there should have been more.
frown That is so sad:cry:

no photo
Sat 06/27/09 09:49 PM
You deserve better than that. Unless you have to have ties to this person, such as children together, I would not have any contact with them at all, and if there are children, only have as much contact as is necessary. You need to find someone that will treat you with respect, decency, and love.flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 06/27/09 09:53 PM
flowerforyou Is he trying to get back with you ,doodlebuggrrl?flowerforyou

doodlebuggrrl's photo
Sat 06/27/09 10:11 PM
no mirror. hes been with someone since b4 the split, we do have kids. he asks me things making me think he cares thats not his bussiness anymore if its not child related. ya know

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 06/27/09 10:14 PM

no mirror. hes been with someone since b4 the split, we do have kids. he asks me things making me think he cares thats not his bussiness anymore if its not child related. ya know
flowerforyou You are afraid that another guy will down you again?:smile: And you don't understand how your ex could say those hurtful things to you in the past?:smile:

doodlebuggrrl's photo
Sat 06/27/09 10:26 PM
i know i have trouble getting really emotional with anyone i mean really emotional. ya know. and i think he told me those things to make me move on. mho

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 06/27/09 10:49 PM

i know i have trouble getting really emotional with anyone i mean really emotional. ya know. and i think he told me those things to make me move on. mho
:smile: So he said the hurtful things when he broke up with you and you didn't expect it? :smile: He should feel pretty rotten saying hurtful things to the mother of his children and if he has any heart at all then deep down he does:smile: Yeah, he could have said that stuff to make you move on.flowerforyou