Does she think youare obsessed with sex with her or does she feel that because you give her no room to be herself that you are obsessed? May need to clarify with her what she means. Remember men and women do not always mean the same thing when they talk.

Then perhaps she is trying to act tough so her heart does not break so much. Have seen Ladies do this. Maybe she is thinking a LDR would not work. Maybe she is worried you might cheat. Maybe she might cheat. Still say talking to her will be the most beneficial.

So I just kind of learned that I may be obsessed over a girlfriend I have. I thought that I felt love for her, what is the difference? and how can I turn things around so that she doesn't feel like I'm obsessed with her... she doesn't seem to be in the mood for sex/foreplay is this normal if she feels that Im obsessed over her?

Love is two people, obsession is one person.

Cutting off the sex thing happens for too many reasons and they lie usually with the Lady. Hate to give advice, certainly no expert on Female thinking, but it seems like there is something going on. Maybe she just like she says, needs time to evaluate is this relationship what she really wants. If that's the case she needs the time she needs, no sense trying to rush. Try not to jump to any conclusions. I have spent many nights worrying what could be it, only to find I was as far off base as Mars and Pluto! Hopefully soon she will confide what is bothering her.