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Topic: The Ex
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Thu 06/25/09 05:33 AM

Pretty bad about that need to grow up, my dad seemed too have alot of female friends, I never could understand that, Im more like my mom in the sense of same sex friends creates no confusion other wise it seems jealousy is bound too pop up some time, although not always I hope spock slaphead

Well i wont say that i dont have male friends cuz i do, but i don't think the ex thing is respectful when you are with someone else.

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Thu 06/25/09 05:34 AM
Be honest about your feeling and talk about it if he loves you he will understand your worries and if she is just a friend now she will understand to.

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Thu 06/25/09 05:37 AM

She really isn't, he just talks to her on the computer sometimes...
....so did mine. We had everything ready for the wedding and she stood me up at the alter, jumped in her car, and drove to idaho, and remarried him. 13 grand worth of embarassment. Never again.

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Thu 06/25/09 05:38 AM

Is it a normal feeling to be insecure/jealous of your significant other's ex?? Is this something that most people get uncomfortable about if they know their bf/gf converses with them in anyway if they dont "have to" spock spock


I dunno. I guess it depends on your situation.

If he's gushing about having talked to her, sharing little anecdotes that might be less than appropriate, then talk to him about your feelings.

If he does mention that yes e did talk to her and left it at that, let it go. Unless he's giving you reason to be concerned about the situation, then just breathe and move on.

Personally, I still talk some with my ex. We still have some financial issues that we are resolving, but also we were together for 15 years. We have a history and are still, somewhat friends on some level. Hell, I had to call him the other day to ask about something on my truck, because I didn't remember what was done. He called me to say "you were right" after he had a heart attack. It is what it is.

You just have to reconcile your feelings with your situation.

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Thu 06/25/09 05:39 AM
I always let them see

I'm
Beautiful
I'm smart
I'm sexy

It kills em!!!!

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Thu 06/25/09 05:43 AM
Edited by longhairbiker on Thu 06/25/09 05:45 AM
She went back to her jobless ex husband whose a scizophrenic on medication living at home with his mother in the meth capitol of the US- boise idaho. Because they talked on the net. Yup, I picked a winner.

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Thu 06/25/09 05:47 AM
Rule 621 in bikers dating handbook- "No exes".

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Thu 06/25/09 05:50 AM
Want angry? I carried the wedding cake to the parking lot and squashed it with my car, then did a burnout on it.

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Thu 06/25/09 05:53 AM
We did have a nice bonfire......with all of her belongings. Nothing to remind me of her!

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Thu 06/25/09 06:06 AM
"Uh, yeah, um, I'm sorry for running off on you like that. But I just decided to do what is in my best interest. I hope you're not too angry. Uh, um, I'm thinking we may travel back in a few months and pick up my things if that's ok"? "There is nothing here for you- its all gone". "My widescreen TV"? "Burned it". "My oak furniture"? "Burned it". "My dining room set"? "Burned it". "My extra bed"? "Burned it; all on our wedding night. Quite a bonfire standing around drunk in tuxes. Thanks for embarassing me wh*re, and thanks for the meaningless debt and bills. May karma be sweet to you in your life. Don't come back. Ever".

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Thu 06/25/09 06:09 AM
"Oh I'm just talking to my ex on the net. No big deal". Yeah, right.

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Thu 06/25/09 06:42 AM
shocked scared

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Thu 06/25/09 07:57 AM
Yeah you can take me off the list for EVER getting married. I'm broken and trust is gone.

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Thu 06/25/09 08:05 AM
But thanks for letting me vent. Ahhh, I feel so much better. Marriage, for everything else there's mastercard. Like xanex. And therapy. Liquor, charcoal lighter fluid. County burning permit. Watching all her stuff go up in flames?.......priceless.

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Thu 06/25/09 05:09 PM
No problemlaugh


I wasn't really speaking of marriage tho!laugh :wink:

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Thu 06/25/09 07:48 PM

But thanks for letting me vent. Ahhh, I feel so much better. Marriage, for everything else there's mastercard. Like xanex. And therapy. Liquor, charcoal lighter fluid. County burning permit. Watching all her stuff go up in flames?.......priceless.








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