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I met a wonderful man on this site and we have been talking marriage for a few months. We met in December so now have been talking for seven months. Is this too soon? We are very much alike in the things we like to do and what we don't want to do. It started as a joke when he asked if I wanted to get married but then it turned serious and not we both want it more that anything! Should we just go for it and not listen to people that say we need to get to know each other better or should we hold off and see if we can nit pick and make each other miserable to talk each other out of marriage? LOL! This is not a separate move on my part or his. We both can get other dates if we chose to do so-we are truly in love with each other and don't want to waste another minute being without each other.
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 thats up to the 2 of you I don't think it's too soon why waste time we are not guaranteed live  laugh love
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I'd say give it as much time as possible to be absolutely sure!
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thats up to the 2 of you I don't think it's too soon why waste time we are not guaranteed live laugh love Thank you-that is how we both feel. We are both 40 so I think we know what we are getting into. |
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I'd say give it as much time as possible to be absolutely sure! Pats, in a normal life I would have that luxury, but with me having lupus, I don't know if I am guaranteed health and for how long so I have to jump at opportunities when I see them. |
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If he makes you happy... makes you smile.. then what are you waiting for? Tomorrow is not promised so enjoy each day you have with one another! Congrats and good luck!
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I'd say give it as much time as possible to be absolutely sure! Pats, in a normal life I would have that luxury, but with me having lupus, I don't know if I am guaranteed health and for how long so I have to jump at opportunities when I see them. I wish the best for both of you
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Good luck.
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I'd say give it as much time as possible to be absolutely sure! Pats, in a normal life I would have that luxury, but with me having lupus, I don't know if I am guaranteed health and for how long so I have to jump at opportunities when I see them. I wish the best for both of you Thank you-again we did meet on Mingle and he is 8 hours away but he is moving here in a few weeks so this site does work if you really look. Everyone go out and buy some cheap web cams so we can have the wedding on the internet. LOL! |
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it's awesome that you two found each other! very cool! congrats!!
 
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I always like to see how people get mad first......how they are when they are sick, how they are when sad. I wanna see what I am getting into. Then I can make a better decision.
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In the end, it won't matter as the question of "too soon" will sooner or later be replaced with the exclamation of "not soon enough!!!".
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