I desire lonely widowed women, I need to know they want attention and sex. I desire older women that most people couldn't believe I would get involved with, it seems the more likely we are not compatible the more intense my desire becomes. I always seek someone that fits that description and I am seeking any opportunity to find someone that falls into that category. Can someone help me in regards to approaching women and explaining to them homestly what I want without chasing them away. Any suggestions or feedback would be appreciated. Is this possible and has anyone else ever experienced this?