I know That when GOD wants you to have someone and to be with them he put them there in your life but why dose he have to let you get your heart borken so many times?

so when the right one is brought into your life you will relize the gift you have and you will value it more ..

JMO...To make you stronger.

God will never put more on your shoulders, than what you can handle.

God don't break your heart, you do. Make better choices...

I don't think God sets us up to get our hearts broken. Quite the contrary since he actually gives us a lot of criteria of how to avoid people who do just that if we pay attention. We have choices and it isn't God's fault when we choose badly. Actually he is more forgiving of us than we are of ourselves. And comforting if we let it happen.

A piece of advice. Don't throw your heart at every date. It's ok to shelter it a bit.

Not sure a "God" has anything to do with it. Finding the right person is hard. So many different personalities, life experiences, expectations, it all adds up to quite a bit to adjust ourselves too and finding a person with similar ideals, life experiences and expectations I would think IS hard.

It is a shame so many people are dishonest and have their own adgendas and we end up having our hearts broken but I geuss this is all in the learning process and maybe we have to choose more wisely to whom we give our hearts.

I hope we find our soulmates but honestly, I kinda doubt it now in my stage of life.

Melody

To be frank, I'm open-minded about this. If God exists, then God gives us the options to chose from & the ability to figure out which choice is best. I've lost love before and usually blamed myself for it, so on that basis I think that we as human, just make it quite hard for ourselves

Why does a god have to get the blame for human mistakes?

your suppose to remain single for the rest of your life

His design is terrible.

God ain't got nuthin ta do with it. It's called Free Will an makin choices. Sumtimes we make the wrong ones an ya just need ta learn from them an persevere

can i get off the topic for a second? do you guys think that you have, meaning me, been givein so many chances and made bad choices so much that god just washes his hands from you and you will be lonely the rest of your life or get heart broken all the time?

Whhy do you have to have your heart broken to find what you want?

Im not saying I know your exact circumstances, but for me, I find this time when Im single to reflect and learn new things about myself. Time used to grow and develop so I dont make old mistakes again.

Who knows if all of us will meet soulmates in this lifetime or the next. The idea of soulmates is divine, the possibility of a soulmate crossing my path and me/you/him missing it shall be forever unknown. Its all trial and error. The only thing you can do is dust yourself off and try again, or dust yourself off and be content to live alone.

Im not a real religious person, but I do believe in some higher power (destiny/fate/etc) having a hand in our lives. I also believe though that a lot of it hinges on what we do to achieve it.

Be positive Ike, dont go the easy route.

Good Luck
TM

if it was easy everybody could do it. and no body would appreciate it