Topic: Be who ya wanna be
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Wed 06/17/09 10:52 PM

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Well if I ask for your number, it means I want to take this acquaintance on the threads to the next level....the friendship level.

Once you get to that point with me, it can either stop there where we talk on the phone or it can go to the next level....the meeting level.

Once we meet, I will know if the friendship will last or if it is just a passing phase...but then again if we never meet in person, I know I will have a friend on the other end of the phone who is there for me. Just as I will always be there for them.

And that is who I want to be!!! Me.....because I don't know how to be anyone else.....:wink:


thats not off topic at all


that is very good leena

thats the answer i was looking for earlier....well i guess it was off topic for this thread LOL

but ya ladies that is what i was looking for ^^^^

not that were all stalkers LOL

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Wed 06/17/09 10:53 PM


but back to the point of this thread


either way i dont care

i just wanna be who i am -- like me or not

if i bug you bc you think im one thing and i know im not, oh well..your loss


All u should be is urself. I know I'm not everyone's particular brand of fiesty but I could care less. It's way to time consumin to try an please everyone.shades


But I likes you cuz you is feisty!!

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Wed 06/17/09 10:55 PM
I wanna be sedated.

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Wed 06/17/09 10:57 PM
*passes it to msmyka smokin

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Wed 06/17/09 10:58 PM



but back to the point of this thread


either way i dont care

i just wanna be who i am -- like me or not

if i bug you bc you think im one thing and i know im not, oh well..your loss


All u should be is urself. I know I'm not everyone's particular brand of fiesty but I could care less. It's way to time consumin to try an please everyone.shades


But I likes you cuz you is feisty!!


Don't know any other way to beshades

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Wed 06/17/09 11:00 PM

*passes it to msmyka smokin
im next, me me my turn

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Wed 06/17/09 11:01 PM
Okay.

I "wanna" be someone who explains myself. What now?

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Wed 06/17/09 11:05 PM

Okay.

I "wanna" be someone who explains myself. What now?



i tried that -- thats what the original thread said

i already told you that isnt happening lol

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Wed 06/17/09 11:09 PM

Okay.

I "wanna" be someone who explains myself. What now?


I thought "YEEEEEEET!!!!!" was your way of explaining yourself......?

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Wed 06/17/09 11:09 PM


Okay.

I "wanna" be someone who explains myself. What now?



i tried that -- thats what the original thread said

i already told you that isnt happening lol
explain yourself billy,lol,just kiddinlaugh laugh laugh

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Wed 06/17/09 11:14 PM
im gay

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Wed 06/17/09 11:20 PM

im gay
im not!!!!!!!!!!!

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Wed 06/17/09 11:20 PM
FIFER!!!! I think we found you a friend!!!noway noway

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Wed 06/17/09 11:21 PM
I'm feeling an excedrin moment coming on.

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Wed 06/17/09 11:21 PM
I'll email sweetums right away an let him know we got a new friend for himshades

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Wed 06/17/09 11:30 PM

So get this...who agrees with me?

Anyone?

Oh yeah, what I was going to say:

I realize I am a "special" kind of guy. I say very off the wall things. Very straight forward things.

Yet when I do...and no one understands me...and I try and then explain myself...guess where I end up?

No where...

So...guess what, my advice to anyone who may have trouble like that....Just be who ya wanna be....

There isn't enough time to worry aboute xplaining yourself and how you feel about something if they dont want to listen....

When is the last time your ex sat ya down and told you why they cheated or left you? They probably havent....

When is the last time that slime at work or your "someone's" family explained why they give you those looks or say what they do?

So.....forget about it and just stop worrying.

If people dont understand me the first time....I'm not trying a second


The only thing ANYONE should be anywhere (not only online) is themselves. The problem is that there are those out there (and in here) who just HAVE to make it their duty to ensure that people aren't allowed to be themselves. They'll step in and voice their (often negative) opinions about something and make no mistake as to who they're aiming their vile and avarice towards- YOU.


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Wed 06/17/09 11:31 PM


The only thing ANYONE should be anywhere (not only online) is themselves. The problem is that there are those out there (and in here) who just HAVE to make it their duty to ensure that people aren't allowed to be themselves. They'll step in and voice their (often negative) opinions about something and make no mistake as to who they're aiming their vile and avarice towards- YOU.




right on...couldnt say it better myself

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Wed 06/17/09 11:33 PM


Okay.

I "wanna" be someone who explains myself. What now?



i tried that -- thats what the original thread said

i already told you that isnt happening lol
Uh, yeah, that was the point of my comment. Your advice: Be yourself, without explanation. My retort: "Being myself" includes a desire to explain myself. And..."What now?"

*Sigh*

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Wed 06/17/09 11:35 PM
Even worse are the lack-of-reasoning for doing so, too. Most will do it out of some goody-two-shoes mentality of theirs, while others will do it out of pure arrogance and a purely holier-than-thou attitude of theirs. And nothing's worse than to get a lip-ful from a know-it-all princess with a holier-than-thou mentality.

Of course, the SECOND you turn around and give them both-barrels, YOU'RE looked upon as the "bad-guy" comeplete with negative consequences.

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Wed 06/17/09 11:38 PM
Nothing is worse than a hater.... hate hate hate hate.