I don't get what some guys are doing. They view my profile and then blow me a kiss or email me. I respond in some way and then that's the end him. Is the challenge to see if they can get someone to rspond or what is it? I'm not desperate in the least but it takes up my time plus I'm curious to know why they do that. Any ideas?

I hate when that happens!

Well Darlin, being make maybe I can shed some light on it, granted I could be wrong.
Having said that, they "wink" at a girl to let her know they find her attractive, but probably feel you're not their type or such forth (distance hair color, body style etc) but wanted to let you know that at least you ARE cute.
When it comes to the internet, you never know if it's a real person or not, so when you get no reply, it's usually safe to assume they aren't real, sometimes those things happen to get a person to reply to them so they can spam their account. Security is of prime essence when being single and on the net, just like anything else, it's a risk.
Some men, granted it's more rare, never know what TO say to a woman they get interested in, so when she emails them, they clam up as they aren't sure what to write back, and get the "butterflies". Others, might not check their messages each day (I'm one of those) and only reply when they have or make the time. Still others, might actually be talking to SO many women they may not have enough time TO reply, and I've seen a lot of women who fall into THAT category online on this end... Bottom line is you have to take it with a grain of salt, usually a spoonful, be as real as you can while being cautious, and when those things happen, to being ignored...? Well just chalk it up to the fact you learn fast which people are NOT your type and be glad for it!


Doc