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Topic: request for female feedback
babygirl98270's photo
Thu 06/11/09 08:45 PM


Your profile seems just fine to me !!!!!!
If you want honest answers its best to get them from both sexes wouldn't you think??? There are alot of males and females that have had good luck so why not ask some of those males that us women perv


I'd like to (possibly) have sex with a person I meet. That is a wonderful pasttime, and a delicious tease in the back of my mind when having conversation. It drives my brain to stay awake and focus, because I am interested in the person I'm talking to.

I suppose you might say girls make me smarter.


That makes sense but you were asking I thought for some honest feedback I thought Not for sex

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Sat 06/13/09 07:04 AM



Your profile seems just fine to me !!!!!!
If you want honest answers its best to get them from both sexes wouldn't you think??? There are alot of males and females that have had good luck so why not ask some of those males that us women perv


I'd like to (possibly) have sex with a person I meet. That is a wonderful pasttime, and a delicious tease in the back of my mind when having conversation. It drives my brain to stay awake and focus, because I am interested in the person I'm talking to.

I suppose you might say girls make me smarter.


That makes sense but you were asking I thought for some honest feedback I thought Not for sex


Maybe this is more accurate - I grew up abused by my father, was not allowed social interaction, father answered the phone when girls called and said "my son doesn't date girls". Had to fight bullies constantly because of no friends. Got hurt badly once, and the school and my dad did nothing, then sent me back to school the next day. 6 hours in a classroom with a person that was stomping your chest with steel toe'd boots on the hallway floor while 30 people watched and did nothing.

Ok. That was too much information, but I needed to say that somewhere. It really bothers me. Point is - I cannot relax or communicate with or around men. Women are my only form of contact with humanity. It is a problem, and I want to change it, but am not sure how.

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Sat 06/13/09 08:35 AM
Edited by babygirl98270 on Sat 06/13/09 08:36 AM
Babe- I am the last person you need to explain yourself to.. Dont be so defensive you asked for my opinion and I gave it !!!!!!!!
I am sorry for your childhood !!! I hope you find what your looking for.. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 06/13/09 08:46 AM
oh well that explains the aggression in the other thread.

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Sat 06/13/09 08:52 AM

Babe- I am the last person you need to explain yourself to.. Dont be so defensive you asked for my opinion and I gave it !!!!!!!!
I am sorry for your childhood !!! I hope you find what your looking for.. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


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sex

I said the possibility of it, even if sex will NOT happen, is a driving force in my level of focus and attention. It is not that I'm "looking for sex". It is that I'm only able to socialize with people who embody the first real relationship I had - a girlfriend. Sex is not a requirement. Sexual tension is. It is the only thing that keeps my brain awake enough to speak and think with other people about things NOT related to computers or science.

Is there some way to do that without hurting women?

a_shields's photo
Sat 06/13/09 08:52 AM

oh well that explains the aggression in the other thread.


Link me please. I want to understand what I said and why now.

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Sat 06/13/09 08:57 AM
maybe it wasn't u? i can't remember and it seems to have been removed

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Sat 06/13/09 09:08 AM


Babe- I am the last person you need to explain yourself to.. Dont be so defensive you asked for my opinion and I gave it !!!!!!!!
I am sorry for your childhood !!! I hope you find what your looking for.. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


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sex

I said the possibility of it, even if sex will NOT happen, is a driving force in my level of focus and attention. It is not that I'm "looking for sex". It is that I'm only able to socialize with people who embody the first real relationship I had - a girlfriend. Sex is not a requirement. Sexual tension is. It is the only thing that keeps my brain awake enough to speak and think with other people about things NOT related to computers or science.

Is there some way to do that without hurting women?




I think that depends on the female and if your upfront about what your looking for.. Alot of women "say" they wont get attached and that they want the same thing then when it happens you have your next stalker

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Sat 06/13/09 09:10 AM



Babe- I am the last person you need to explain yourself to.. Dont be so defensive you asked for my opinion and I gave it !!!!!!!!
I am sorry for your childhood !!! I hope you find what your looking for.. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


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sex

I said the possibility of it, even if sex will NOT happen, is a driving force in my level of focus and attention. It is not that I'm "looking for sex". It is that I'm only able to socialize with people who embody the first real relationship I had - a girlfriend. Sex is not a requirement. Sexual tension is. It is the only thing that keeps my brain awake enough to speak and think with other people about things NOT related to computers or science.

Is there some way to do that without hurting women?




I think that depends on the female and if your upfront about what your looking for.. Alot of women "say" they wont get attached and that they want the same thing then when it happens you have your next stalker


I don't care about someone stalking me. I care about hurting someone with my actions.

Can a single girl and guy be friends and sexually attracted to each other without sex? Or is that a terrible idea.

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Sat 06/13/09 09:12 AM
Edited by babygirl98270 on Sat 06/13/09 09:13 AM
Well If your both sexually attracted to each other WHY NOT HAVE SEX

babygirl98270's photo
Sat 06/13/09 09:12 AM
Is it that your not looking for a relationship and your afraid thats what would transpire

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Sat 06/13/09 10:55 AM

Is it that your not looking for a relationship and your afraid thats what would transpire


I am afraid she will like me too much, and that she will hide that from me. I do some things (to focus and stay awake) that a person in love with me might be hurt to see.

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Sat 06/13/09 11:18 AM
wow all I can say to that is be honest and upfront I dont know what else to say Darlin

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Sat 06/13/09 12:33 PM
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Mon 07/20/09 07:14 PM
Do some of you women "perv" guys?
Wow! Gimme summa dat!

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