Topic: Casual Friends With Some Benefits Relationship
Dragoness's photo
Wed 06/10/09 05:30 PM

:heart:Do you think that a person can have an effective casual friends-with some-benefits relationship with someone they once had a long term serious relationship with?:heart:


I think it would be too easy to fall into old habits on that one. Probably not a good idea.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Wed 06/10/09 05:31 PM
Any thing with benefits is great:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/10/09 05:33 PM


:heart:Do you think that a person can have an effective casual friends-with some-benefits relationship with someone they once had a long term serious relationship with?:heart:


I think it would be too easy to fall into old habits on that one. Probably not a good idea.
flowerforyou good pointflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/10/09 05:33 PM

This would just be a resumption/continuation of the long term relationship.
:thumbsup: yep:thumbsup:

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 06/10/09 05:34 PM
Its worked for me before she was transfered for the military. So yes...it can work.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/10/09 05:39 PM

Any thing with benefits is great:thumbsup:
:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/10/09 05:39 PM

Its worked for me before she was transfered for the military. So yes...it can work.
:thumbsup:

no photo
Wed 06/10/09 05:41 PM
:heart: i love your threads..and my answer is YES:heart:

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/10/09 06:02 PM

:heart: i love your threads..and my answer is YES:heart:
:thumbsup: thanx:thumbsup:

bastet126's photo
Wed 06/10/09 06:10 PM
i gotta go with bad idea on this one. just see one of the parties getting hurt...again.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/10/09 06:11 PM

i gotta go with bad idea on this one. just see one of the parties getting hurt...again.
flowerforyou

metalwing's photo
Wed 06/10/09 06:30 PM
As far as relationships are concerned, anything is possible. That does not make it a good idea for most.

shoesmonkey's photo
Wed 06/10/09 06:31 PM
Absolutely not Mirror.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/10/09 06:43 PM

As far as relationships are concerned, anything is possible. That does not make it a good idea for most.
:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/10/09 06:44 PM

Absolutely not Mirror.
flowerforyou

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Wed 06/10/09 06:49 PM

:heart:Do you think that a person can have an effective casual friends-with some-benefits relationship with someone they once had a long term serious relationship with?:heart:


No. That's nothing but a fiasco waiting to happen.

You can go from FWB to relationship (and even THAT is suspect at best), but going from relationship to FWB is just an outright mistake. All the past drama and friction that led up to your breaking off your relationship would undoubtedly be drudged up in your FWB situation, which can only result in bad things happening.

So no- don't do that.

no photo
Wed 06/10/09 06:52 PM
Definitely a bad idea.

no photo
Wed 06/10/09 07:05 PM
gave in and tried it.
based on experience i can say
unequivocally, authoritatively, definitively, unwaveringly ...


probably not
frustrated

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/10/09 08:17 PM


:heart:Do you think that a person can have an effective casual friends-with some-benefits relationship with someone they once had a long term serious relationship with?:heart:


No. That's nothing but a fiasco waiting to happen.

You can go from FWB to relationship (and even THAT is suspect at best), but going from relationship to FWB is just an outright mistake. All the past drama and friction that led up to your breaking off your relationship would undoubtedly be drudged up in your FWB situation, which can only result in bad things happening.

So no- don't do that.
bigsmile good advicebigsmile

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Wed 06/10/09 08:26 PM



:heart:Do you think that a person can have an effective casual friends-with some-benefits relationship with someone they once had a long term serious relationship with?:heart:


No. That's nothing but a fiasco waiting to happen.

You can go from FWB to relationship (and even THAT is suspect at best), but going from relationship to FWB is just an outright mistake. All the past drama and friction that led up to your breaking off your relationship would undoubtedly be drudged up in your FWB situation, which can only result in bad things happening.

So no- don't do that.
bigsmile good advicebigsmile


Good advice? It's TREMENDOUSLY-GOOD advice! Probably better than getting advice on your taxes! :laughing: