Topic: did you "max out"
Atlantis75's photo
Tue 06/09/09 02:52 PM

If you're limiting yourself to 50 miles and coming up with nothing, you can either stay frustrated, or not worry so much about the miles. If you don't really care to meet anyone, then stay within those 50 miles, I guess.


I'm not frustrated, I'm just "maxed out"...don't see a point of searching on mutual match..that's all. smile2

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Tue 06/09/09 02:53 PM
So, don't use mutual match? laugh

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 06/09/09 03:15 PM

So, don't use mutual match? laugh


Do you use it?

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 06/09/09 03:25 PM
#1

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 06/09/09 03:29 PM
Forget about the finding someone crap. Just hang out!!!

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 06/09/09 03:30 PM

Forget about the finding someone crap. Just hang out!!!




drinker

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Tue 06/09/09 03:57 PM


So, don't use mutual match? laugh


Do you use it?


I've looked through mutual matches and even contacted a few. But, I rarely do it, so no, I've never maxed out.

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Tue 06/09/09 04:06 PM
I've got mine set at 250 miles (not that I would actually travel that far) and have yet to see a MM profile that would make me actually want to meet someone. There was one girl I thought was very attractive, but she turned out to be the "other person" (non-Mingle member) in a 2-person profile pic.




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Tue 06/09/09 05:44 PM
Ah good ole mutual match: Before the inception of the mutual match system I never realized I was so attractive to people who live as far away as possible in the continental USA. Of course the solution is to move to that far away location, rent an apartment, set up your internet and mutual match there then when you match with people from your original location you can move back home.

TxsSun's photo
Tue 06/09/09 05:47 PM
I didn't use it and never will noway

metalwing's photo
Tue 06/09/09 06:09 PM
I just turn on the bug zapper. I get the same results but with a satisfying 'Pop ...zzzzzzt'

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 06/09/09 06:34 PM
I just use "Mutual Match" to ask random people who's serial killer mug shot I should put up next...

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Tue 06/09/09 06:44 PM
I got 25 people with in 50 mile, only six have been seen within the last month. Someone else posted "there's nobody near me" I call BS, I checked, 168 people with in 50 miles of that individual.

I like the forums, because I sure ain't here for the 'dates'

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Tue 06/09/09 06:50 PM

Last time I looked it was trying to set me up with myself.


Thats funny sh*t
Darlin just have fun stick around for awhile and see what happens.. It gets frustrating I know everyone I have clicked with lives like six states away.. But its not just mingle I untill recently was on another site and the same thing happened there..
I have to agree 100 miles is not that far.. and I know alot of people are willing to relocate... for that right person.. but 100 miles is better than 2500 miles
Good luck

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Tue 06/09/09 07:15 PM



you think you got a problem. i live in california and most everyone on mingle is in the east coast and theres hardly anyone out here on mingle


No they are not...nobody here lol....they are all in Texas. Just count the posters who are from Texas and you will see!

Hahahaha... I left Texas for a reason. I mean, many, many reasons. Not going back for anyone. ANYONE. They can meet me on the East Coast.

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Tue 06/09/09 07:17 PM




you think you got a problem. i live in california and most everyone on mingle is in the east coast and theres hardly anyone out here on mingle


No they are not...nobody here lol....they are all in Texas. Just count the posters who are from Texas and you will see!

Hahahaha... I left Texas for a reason. I mean, many, many reasons. Not going back for anyone. ANYONE. They can meet me on the East Coast.


DC, I see. Did you move there for work? I don't know if I know anyone who didn't move to DC for work.

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 06/09/09 07:41 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Tue 06/09/09 07:41 PM
Now I just realized the mistake I made by creating this thread.

Possible potential members I might missed during browsing, just gonna say "OH well...he looked through and didn't like me either"..

scared

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Tue 06/09/09 07:50 PM

Now I just realized the mistake I made by creating this thread.

Possible potential members I might missed during browsing, just gonna say "OH well...he looked through and didn't like me either"..

scared


Smart man.flowers flowerforyou flowers

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Tue 06/09/09 07:51 PM

the "mutual match" on mingle and there is no one new?

For example. Since I try to stay close to my location, I searched in a 50 miles radius and it gave back the same people like a few months ago, no new faces. The ones I liked wrote a mail for them, this would be about 15 people who are in my vicinity, I got 2 responses back, neither of them any encouraging but more like a "thanks, I wish you luck" and "ok, bye" and that's it.

So basically, there is nobody to mail or to consider locally (within 50 miles) and I don't really want to have a long distance relationship.

So now I'm down to a few options.

1. Exclude Mingle as a place to find someone and just talk on it
2 Get out of this area
3. Wait for a miracle and hope whoever signs up in the near future "might" like me?


Not so much "max out" as "just quit doing it after a while". Basically put, Mutual Match stinks and shoulda been bannished to hell from the get-go.

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Tue 06/09/09 07:55 PM


you think you got a problem. i live in california and most everyone on mingle is in the east coast and theres hardly anyone out here on mingle


Funny, awhile ago I met someone on mutual match and got along with her really well. I live in philly, she lived in California. It's a conspiracy I tell you. Mutual Match proves that God has a mean sense of humor.