Who said anything about non violent? Anyone that came near my gal got the same dose!!!

I don't mind the competition but I do respect if someone is already taken and steer away and I think it's stupid if someone plays a game with someone he or she already broken up with. On the other hand if I have a girlfriend and she is easily steered away by someone, while telling me she loves me, then she better pack up and leave, it's not the guy's fault who is hitting on her. I've seen guys hitting on my ex, (she wasn't ex yet then) while i went to the bathroom in a restaurant or she was alone, etc and she always told me that some guy was hitting on her, and that's fine as long as she told him that she is taken. On the other hand, when they see me, they do give up, even though I'm a very peaceful man.

what is up with all this personal agenda nonsense? I'm able to deal with competition from other men from a girl i like, but i will walk away if the girl is the one welcoming it. No one should have to "prove themselves" in order to show their validity as a potential mate. Love and dating should work as simple as this; they like you-you like them, they like being around you-you like being around them, they make you happy-you make them happy. Does that look simple enough? I get a little sick of this "finding the alpha male" bullcrap. It also gets tiring to hear about these women who whine about not wanting a "nice guy", but at the same time, they don't want a guy who's a cocky jackass either. People can't make up their minds anymore. Lots of good people, both men and women go without companionship all because of some stupid ideas that don't really mean anything in the end. If people need to play games to see who is worthy or unfit of their special attention, they deserve to be alone