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Topic: True or false?
Atlantis75's photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:37 PM
When women become lonely or going through a separation period after a failed relationship, they usually end up having pets, like dogs, because they need someone or something they can trust and trust is returned.

Lonely men or men who feels being betrayed or separated or never found that particular partner will put his interest into various activities, such as working in the garage (cars motorcycles etc) or politics and other discussions, but also may end up getting pets to minimalize the feel of being alone.

After a while, both (men and women) realize, that no pets and neither any other sort of activity can replace of having a partner.

Mountainjumper's photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:41 PM
I'd say thats true. Granted pets and other avenues of venting feelings or frustrations can be enjoyable however we were created to compliment each other (male and female) so you will never truly be happy until you allow yourself to be with someone.

no photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:42 PM
True

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:42 PM
I think it can be true for some but not all.. I had my dog before the split up and adored him just the same...

Jules0565's photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:43 PM
Somewhat true, I suppose. Though I don't go out and get an animal.. I just need time to do my own thing, I usually take a year off from dating.

no photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:46 PM
I guess it can be true for some people. I didn't get my cats as a result of a breakup. I also think there are many women out there who will get involved in activities, while they figure out how to be happy on their own.

ReddBeans's photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:46 PM
I can only speak for myself. I've never gone out an gotten a pet to fill some empty spot in my life. They've all found their way into my life for some other reason. When I break up after a relationship. I tend to step back an give myself time to learn to be alone again. shades

misstina2's photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:48 PM
flowerforyou false for me I have no petsflowerforyou I haven't had many failed relationships eitherflowerforyou

writer_gurl's photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:50 PM
There is nothing wrong with getting a puppy after a splitsurprised

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 06/07/09 01:50 PM
I've always had pets and have always been active...relationship or notindifferent

ZAfterlife's photo
Sun 06/07/09 02:04 PM
I'm not sure if I completely agree with the logic. I had a cat before I got divorced.
I realized that I needed to care for and take care of myself and be independent and not define myself by who I'm with so I fill my time with projects that make me happy.
When the right man comes along-I'm here and I'm enjoying my life. Just not desperate or needy to find one. So while I'm waiting I'm having fun and creating some great pieces of art and enriching my life.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 06/07/09 02:13 PM
bigsmile I like doing what I like to dobigsmile

auburngirl's photo
Sun 06/07/09 05:24 PM

When women become lonely or going through a separation period after a failed relationship, they usually end up having pets, like dogs, because they need someone or something they can trust and trust is returned.

Lonely men or men who feels being betrayed or separated or never found that particular partner will put his interest into various activities, such as working in the garage (cars motorcycles etc) or politics and other discussions, but also may end up getting pets to minimalize the feel of being alone.

After a while, both (men and women) realize, that no pets and neither any other sort of activity can replace of having a partner.


I'd say that is probably true. Hobbies, pets etc are great. But only a special someone can fill that hole in your heart.

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 06/07/09 05:27 PM
Couple of years ago, I have met someone who had a case with this.

She actually told me after a couple of dates, that unfortunately I would always be "a second" , she can't help it, her dogs come first.

That was the last time I went out with her.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 06/07/09 05:31 PM
scared Crazy cat ladiesscared

auburngirl's photo
Sun 06/07/09 05:34 PM

Couple of years ago, I have met someone who had a case with this.

She actually told me after a couple of dates, that unfortunately I would always be "a second" , she can't help it, her dogs come first.

That was the last time I went out with her.


Hey...guys come and guys go. rofl rofl rofl rofl J/K

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 06/07/09 05:38 PM

When women become lonely or going through a separation period after a failed relationship, they usually end up having pets, like dogs, because they need someone or something they can trust and trust is returned.

Lonely men or men who feels being betrayed or separated or never found that particular partner will put his interest into various activities, such as working in the garage (cars motorcycles etc) or politics and other discussions, but also may end up getting pets to minimalize the feel of being alone.

After a while, both (men and women) realize, that no pets and neither any other sort of activity can replace of having a partner.
....false. In my case. I'd rather be working on technical projects. Relationships- I can take it or leave it.

msmyka's photo
Sun 06/07/09 05:39 PM
I don't have any pets yet, but I'm pretty sure he's been able to occupy his time otherwise...

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 06/07/09 05:43 PM

I don't have any pets yet, but I'm pretty sure he's been able to occupy his time otherwise...


So, in that meaning, do you think relationship is just a free time , that needs to be filled in ?

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 06/07/09 05:49 PM
No cats.

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