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Sun 06/07/09 04:26 PM
Well I do get disgusted with my fellow man sometimes . I am always amazed at they're lack of courage for doing the right thing but yet they can screw up the guts to stab you in the back in other things .I know my back is a pincushion !

ReddBeans's photo
Sun 06/07/09 04:30 PM

Well I do get disgusted with my fellow man sometimes . I am always amazed at they're lack of courage for doing the right thing but yet they can screw up the guts to stab you in the back in other things .I know my back is a pincushion !


I've got more than my fair share of back scars. It's just a matter of pullin out the knives, learnin the lesson an movin on. shades

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Sun 06/07/09 04:31 PM
You are so correct !

ReddBeans's photo
Sun 06/07/09 04:34 PM

You are so correct !


When I bring up a past relationship it's to say, this is what happened, this is what I learned. I don't see the point of being bitter. It's a waste of energy an could cause u to miss out on sumthin great happenin in ur life. shades

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Sun 06/07/09 04:37 PM
I've gotten to that point yes .Was'nt easy sometimes but there non the less

ReddBeans's photo
Sun 06/07/09 04:41 PM

I've gotten to that point yes .Was'nt easy sometimes but there non the less


I've got more than plenty of reasons to despise men but I finally realized it ain't right to punish all for the actions of a few. Took me quite awhile to get to that point. As they say, with age comes wisdom.shades

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Sun 06/07/09 04:48 PM
I could say the same but Ialways had to remember she is the mother of my children .They are old enough that they know the truth but hateing does'nt make it any easier

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Sun 06/07/09 04:51 PM

I could say the same but Ialways had to remember she is the mother of my children .They are old enough that they know the truth but hateing does'nt make it any easier


Thankfully my 3 oldest are grown an I no longer have to deal with the ex husband. Far as Tyler & Elijah are concerned, I'm Mom an Dad so no aggravation there either. Life is drama free for me an that's just the way I like it. shades

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Sun 06/07/09 04:59 PM


I could say the same but Ialways had to remember she is the mother of my children .They are old enough that they know the truth but hateing does'nt make it any easier


Thankfully my 3 oldest are grown an I no longer have to deal with the ex husband. Far as Tyler & Elijah are concerned, I'm Mom an Dad so no aggravation there either. Life is drama free for me an that's just the way I like it. shades
Lucky you !

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Sun 06/07/09 05:03 PM



I could say the same but Ialways had to remember she is the mother of my children .They are old enough that they know the truth but hateing does'nt make it any easier


Thankfully my 3 oldest are grown an I no longer have to deal with the ex husband. Far as Tyler & Elijah are concerned, I'm Mom an Dad so no aggravation there either. Life is drama free for me an that's just the way I like it. shades
Lucky you !


Believe me after hearin some of my gurl friend's talk an hearin from people on here, I count myself very lucky. Took me alot of years to realize when I got the divorce that took away any right he had to aggravate me further. We got into one time over the phone an it dawned on me, I ain't married to the man no more so therefore I don't have to listen to him cut me down. Told him that an simply hung up the phone. Since then, I don't allow him to raise my blood pressure. He has no power over me any longer, I have the power.shades

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Sun 06/07/09 05:21 PM




I could say the same but Ialways had to remember she is the mother of my children .They are old enough that they know the truth but hateing does'nt make it any easier


Thankfully my 3 oldest are grown an I no longer have to deal with the ex husband. Far as Tyler & Elijah are concerned, I'm Mom an Dad so no aggravation there either. Life is drama free for me an that's just the way I like it. shades
Lucky you !


Believe me after hearin some of my gurl friend's talk an hearin from people on here, I count myself very lucky. Took me alot of years to realize when I got the divorce that took away any right he had to aggravate me further. We got into one time over the phone an it dawned on me, I ain't married to the man no more so therefore I don't have to listen to him cut me down. Told him that an simply hung up the phone. Since then, I don't allow him to raise my blood pressure. He has no power over me any longer, I have the power.shades
I fully understand and agree .I would elaborate but I do'nt think its nnecessary !

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Sun 06/07/09 05:24 PM





I could say the same but Ialways had to remember she is the mother of my children .They are old enough that they know the truth but hateing does'nt make it any easier


Thankfully my 3 oldest are grown an I no longer have to deal with the ex husband. Far as Tyler & Elijah are concerned, I'm Mom an Dad so no aggravation there either. Life is drama free for me an that's just the way I like it. shades
Lucky you !


Believe me after hearin some of my gurl friend's talk an hearin from people on here, I count myself very lucky. Took me alot of years to realize when I got the divorce that took away any right he had to aggravate me further. We got into one time over the phone an it dawned on me, I ain't married to the man no more so therefore I don't have to listen to him cut me down. Told him that an simply hung up the phone. Since then, I don't allow him to raise my blood pressure. He has no power over me any longer, I have the power.shades
I fully understand and agree .I would elaborate but I do'nt think its nnecessary !



Nope no need. shades

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