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Why is it so hard for a guy like me to find the right girl. I mean you hear that the girls want a guy to be like prince charming. Well im the type who holds the door for you, pays for you, takes you to on a nice romantic dinner, or cooks for you. But the girls i wind up with just want sex and thats it. Nothing else. They dont want to talk or do something spontanious. what should i do?
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Why is it so hard for a guy like me to find the right girl. I mean you hear that the girls want a guy to be like prince charming. Well im the type who holds the door for you, pays for you, takes you to on a nice romantic dinner, or cooks for you. But the girls i wind up with just want sex and thats it. Nothing else. They dont want to talk or do something spontanious. what should i do?  Nice Guys always finish last
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But i love being the nice guy. I hate when i see these thugish guys with girls they make feel like **** but stay with them. I mean do i have to start acting like someone im not.
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Well, it's their loss!! I'd kill to find a man my age with all those qualities and with whom there is a mutual attraction.
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You have to have more substance than just being a nice guy. Be so interesting that we want to be with you before anyone else.
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You have to end up having s&x with them. Honestly, most of my dates end up like that, women want s&x more than men; if you don't and don't do it soon enough, you fall into the friend zone. Otherwise, go bang your head against a wall trying to find a woman that they tell you about in fairy tales.
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Why is it so hard for a guy like me to find the right girl. I mean you hear that the girls want a guy to be like prince charming. Well im the type who holds the door for you, pays for you, takes you to on a nice romantic dinner, or cooks for you. But the girls i wind up with just want sex and thats it. Nothing else. They dont want to talk or do something spontanious. what should i do? Nice Guys always finish last
They don't finish last, just first runner up. |
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IVE GOT MY CHAIR AND MY POPCORN FOR THIS
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Why is it so hard for a guy like me to find the right girl. I mean you hear that the girls want a guy to be like prince charming. Well im the type who holds the door for you, pays for you, takes you to on a nice romantic dinner, or cooks for you. But the girls i wind up with just want sex and thats it. Nothing else. They dont want to talk or do something spontanious. what should i do? That's the problem. They're girls. Women like what you're talking about. What you're describing (holds doors, etc.) is a normal relationship, IMO. |
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i think you should always be yourself...could it be that you're prince charming just a bit too soon and it kind of creeps them out??? and i do have to admit that bad boys are fun...for a minute or two...be patient and don't lower your standards and your princess charming will find you
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Its a problem trying to find girls my age that want these qualities in a guy. For being intresting, i love to go skiing and cook foods that someone has never eat before, and just do things in the spur of the moment.
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well i thought i had my princess but she told me that i did not respect her enough or spend enough time with her. we were enaged to get married this year and she called it off because she wanted to move to Cali to get away from everyone.
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Dont get me wrong having sex is great but when thats all they want it gets boring after a while. and i dont want my relationship just to be sex.
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well i thought i had my princess but she told me that i did not respect her enough or spend enough time with her. we were enaged to get married this year and she called it off because she wanted to move to Cali to get away from everyone. 
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well i thought i had my princess but she told me that i did not respect her enough or spend enough time with her. we were enaged to get married this year and she called it off because she wanted to move to Cali to get away from everyone.
Yes, please explain. |
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Dont get me wrong having is great but when thats all they want it gets boring after a while. and i dont want my relationship just to be . That is the second point: it is not about her, it is about you, it sounds like you were just trying to please and keep her, which is wrong, she wants a man not the fellow your parents told you to be. |
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I loved her and she always questioned me about that. Every time i wanted to go and spend time with her she had something she had to do, or she had a party to go to, or she was out of town. But when i was busy and she wanted to hang out and i told her sorry i cant im busy she got mad at me a started yelling at me. Idk, maybe i had to drop everything and do as she wanted.
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well i thought i had my princess but she told me that i did not respect her enough or spend enough time with her. we were enaged to get married this year and she called it off because she wanted to move to Cali to get away from everyone. Maybe she knew that she was too young to get married. |
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Ahhh. Well, there are three sides to every story. Hes, yours, and the truth.
You need to find a relationship where there is communication and compromise. Good luck to you! |
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My parents did not rasie me to be this way. Im this way because thats how i want to be. Im not sorry if the girls dont like it but hey im not going to change.
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