I got a honest question, no small talk please, but I was thinking of my last relationship. She lived a few miles away, I went to visit her and her parents didn't like me.Now she wants me to just throw everything under the rug and move on.
I will move out and go as far as it takes for something I can live with, a decent job and a decent life is fine by me.I'm nore than willing to go a extra mile or two for something that is going to work out.

I am not a usual guy, I dont jump into something fast or slow, more or less I take it as the lady would want it to go. I really don't know what to think now. I have had a few relationships, none that were so bad. Everything was right till I came home.

So, with this said. What do I do to fix this "gap" I feel in myself when I keep finding women who are immature like this and where would be the best place to find a girl that would want a developing relationship thats not focused on god or work and money?
Age dosent really matter to me much.

I tried movie theaters, malls, parks, etc, in the area. So, I really can't figure out whats next to try. Clubs are a no, I tried to find a friend to get me in a few, no luck.

Take a hard look at joining one of the military services.

Might help you find structure, my son did & has never, in 16 yrs, regretted it. Will retire 2 weeks before his 38 birthday, with a good pension. How many know, a divorce can not touch military pensions?

Well I guess this is a good way to find those girls who are not immature and who's live don't revolve around Money, God or Work.

Just be straight forward and honest with girls..you know?

I try to be honest and such, but most girls in my area are either "Make it fast" or they don't even try to start relationship at all.

As for structure, I don't think I need it right now. My family hates the idea of me joining the military, but I'm very close to doing it.

Who is going to live your life, YOU or your family??

Pick an occupation, let the govt. train you, get a pension for life.

EVERYTHING in life is what YOU make of it.

Haha, you're only 19 so you have a long way to go.

First off, clubs are not such a good idea for finding someone worthwhile. You'll just find a lot of alcoholics / party girls, but for your age it may not matter.

Second, why did her parents not like you? Usually if a girls parents don't like you off the bat it's a good indication to her that the guy probably isn't relationship material (unless her parents have major issues themselves or race / etc comes into the equation).

Third, only go into the military if you plan to retire from the military. I have so many friends coming out that can't find jobs. While you can make money, it takes a long time to get there and usually only if you one of the "higher ups".

Her parents are really immature to me, they see that I'm not as fluid, they do things of thier own free will without thinking of how it affects thier kids or anyone else.I don't really have much to consider when making small choices, but her mother went to her dads work, drunk.

Her sister argues with the family a lot, mom does stupid stuff, the dad won't talk much at all. It would be a challenge for even the "perfect" guy to get along thier andm ake it work.

As for the military, it has to wait, sorry. I'm not going to do it till I have too, plus Im leagally not able to work in military if they look at how bad my eyes are, unless they changed something.

Are you in college, working towards a career?

I am.
Computer information systems is my goal.

And what exactly, are her parents issues with you?

How long have you been dating this girl, anyways?

Roughly 5 months.

Her parents didn't like that I was not as fluid as them, I would plan tihngs out more than be constantly jumping up and doing things. I like to go one tihng at a time, I odn't like to go crazy with things, herm om even wen't to her dads work and drunk.
Thier a wild family, sure, I can live with it.
It would have been ok, but her parents really are just too extreme sometiems with thier ideals, I don't tihnk a knight in armor can even save her family. They said I was immature because I didnt wan't to go out with them when I knew her mom was intoxicated.

Lemme get this straight... her parents wanted you to go out drinking with them? Where was your GF?

FLUID= go with the flow? and you like to plan things accordingly?

Bahhhhhhhh......stay away from that family.

Not drinking, they wanted me to go out with them to walk aroud some shops with them. Her mom had a few too many drinks and she drove us there.

I relaly didn't agree with it, but I didnt' resist too much. I knew it would have been bad if I did.

Gypsy, I know, but now what do I do......Where woudl I find a girl that fits me better?

Most places I went were a waste of time.

Go to Africa!!!

You go to college.........why not meet them there?

Nigeria!

Movies

Churches

Bookstores

"Comic" shops

Parks

Walking around

Bike riding

Malls

The girl next door

Which?

Hit NYC and go to 42nd street.

Im confused now....