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Topic: Flowers & music??? 911!!!!
romancingu's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:28 PM
I have a strange question for you all. .........
I have been dating someone for a couple weeks now that is very...mmm. well I would say a tough cookie to get to open up to me. So I thought I would try something romantic...You all let me know what you think. I was going to send her of course a dozen roses with a small note stating that I would love to see her again. I would also include a cd??? of the song "AWAKE" by "SECONDHAND SERENADE". You would probably have to hear this song to judge it.It is either going to freak her out or..... she is going to think its was romantic. What do you guys think she would think. Like I said all the romance in this gesture is in the song. Just wondering??? Either this or I am just not going to call for a while.

no photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:29 PM
Send her the roses first........see what her reaction is.



Then maybe the cd later.

no photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:30 PM
Me personally.........I would take them both cuzzzzzzzzzzz Im greedy like that!!!laugh laugh laugh

romancingu's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:31 PM
Possible, not to strong huh??? Smart aproach.

egoodrich's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:31 PM
dont send the cd, the flowers would be enough man. if you want to go add that song in for good measure, then have it playing in the background when she calls to thank you for the flowers.


romancingu's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:31 PM
lol you greedy gypsy

ReddBeans's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:32 PM
Go for it, nuthin ventured, nuthin gainedshades

Euphoric_Dissonance's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:33 PM
I agree with egoodrich. Send the flowers first. Save the cd for later. You don't want to come off as overeager

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Thu 06/04/09 09:34 PM

lol you greedy gypsy

what can I say??? I want it all!!bigsmile drinker

romancingu's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:34 PM
Well ,it is just a idea. I have not made up my mind on if I am even going to send flowers?

romancingu's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:35 PM
Edited by romancingu on Thu 06/04/09 09:37 PM
She almost seems to skidish to even do that. But, I just thought it would be sweet.

Anyway I will check in morning for everyones responses hope to see many.

ReddBeans's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:36 PM
Here's a thought, Balloons instead of flowers, romantic yet has a bit of whimsyshades

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Thu 06/04/09 09:36 PM

She almost seems to skidish to even do that. But, I just thought it would be sweet.

Well just send her 1 rose......

egoodrich's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:37 PM

Well ,it is just a idea. I have not made up my mind on if I am even going to send flowers?


well, you said that you've been dating for a couple weeks now right? how serious is the relationship?
personally i think the flowers are a good idea, just dont send roses or anything though, its cliche. descreetly find out what her favorite flower is, and send them to her.

no photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:37 PM
heres a thought..........SEND ME ROSES INSTEAD!!!laugh :wink: drinker

romancingu's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:38 PM
lol I did that yesterday morning. But, didn't leave a note or message. I just put it on her window. She isn't a morning person.

romancingu's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:39 PM


Well ,it is just a idea. I have not made up my mind on if I am even going to send flowers?


well, you said that you've been dating for a couple weeks now right? how serious is the relationship?
personally i think the flowers are a good idea, just dont send roses or anything though, its cliche. descreetly find out what her favorite flower is, and send them to her.


Thats the thing she is not ready to be serious yet.... I have to earn her trust so she will let me in..?? This is the hurdle I am trying to jump

no photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:40 PM
UH OH........nice guy alert!!!noway scared

egoodrich's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:40 PM

lol I did that yesterday morning. But, didn't leave a note or message. I just put it on her window. She isn't a morning person.




hmmmm, you've gotta watch out for that dude, there's a thin line between romantic and creepy. not saying you're creepy mind you, but she might take something like that the wrong way. hope she doesnt though

romancingu's photo
Thu 06/04/09 09:41 PM

UH OH........nice guy alert!!!noway scared


This is what I keep hearing >>>noway

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