Topic: What keeps people in love together?
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Sun 06/07/09 06:16 AM
if only i knew the answer to that question.

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Sun 06/07/09 06:25 AM

:heart:What keeps people in love together - the joy of being together or fear of losing the other?:heart:


Working at it EVERYDAY.

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Sun 06/07/09 08:06 AM


:heart:What keeps people in love together - the joy of being together or fear of losing the other?:heart:


Working at it EVERYDAY.
flowerforyou very trueflowerforyou

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Sun 06/07/09 08:17 AM

Respect, honesty & trust!


100% correct in my opinion. I agree with you.

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Sun 06/07/09 08:22 AM


:heart:What keeps people in love together - the joy of being together or fear of losing the other?:heart:


Working at it EVERYDAY.


Never stop paying attention to what your partner wants. Always look for little things to do to keep the magic alive.

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Sun 06/07/09 08:25 AM
Edited by isaac_dede on Sun 06/07/09 08:25 AM

:heart:What keeps people in love together - the joy of being together or fear of losing the other?:heart:


Why ask someone on a dating site? we haven't found it...that's why most of us are on here...with some exceptions so i suggest asking someone who has made it work i.e. someone who has been married 40+ years....

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Sun 06/07/09 08:27 AM



:heart:What keeps people in love together - the joy of being together or fear of losing the other?:heart:


Working at it EVERYDAY.


Never stop paying attention to what your partner wants. Always look for little things to do to keep the magic alive.

:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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Sun 06/07/09 08:32 AM


:heart:What keeps people in love together - the joy of being together or fear of losing the other?:heart:


Why ask someone on a dating site? we haven't found it...that's why most of us are on here...with some exceptions so i suggest asking someone who has made it work i.e. someone who has been married 40+ years....
just because we are on a dating site doesn't mean we don't what keeps people in love togetherflowerforyou

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Sun 06/07/09 08:34 AM
I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....

I'll give advice on things such as getting over someone...because i've done that...

But advice on "staying in love" 99% of the people on this site could not possibly give sound advice.....or they would have done it...and not been on this site....

It's like going to a marriage counselor that has been divorced 3 times....i'm sorry their advice i wouldn't trust...

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Sun 06/07/09 08:35 AM


:heart:What keeps people in love together - the joy of being together or fear of losing the other?:heart:


Why ask someone on a dating site? we haven't found it...that's why most of us are on here...with some exceptions so i suggest asking someone who has made it work i.e. someone who has been married 40+ years....


:thumbsup:

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Sun 06/07/09 08:41 AM

I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....

I'll give advice on things such as getting over someone...because i've done that...

But advice on "staying in love" 99% of the people on this site could not possibly give sound advice.....or they would have done it...and not been on this site....

It's like going to a marriage counselor that has been divorced 3 times....i'm sorry their advice i wouldn't trust...
but it takes 2 people to keep the relationship going I don't believe both people are always at fault for a relationship failing.

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Sun 06/07/09 08:45 AM


I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....

I'll give advice on things such as getting over someone...because i've done that...

But advice on "staying in love" 99% of the people on this site could not possibly give sound advice.....or they would have done it...and not been on this site....

It's like going to a marriage counselor that has been divorced 3 times....i'm sorry their advice i wouldn't trust...
but it takes 2 people to keep the relationship going I don't believe both people are always at fault for a relationship failing.

sorry I think there is normally 3 sides to a story yours, theirs, and the truth...which their is normally a little bit on both sides..because one might see it one way why another sees it a different way...i think only in the case of abuse it only one persons fault

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Sun 06/07/09 08:50 AM



I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....

I'll give advice on things such as getting over someone...because i've done that...

But advice on "staying in love" 99% of the people on this site could not possibly give sound advice.....or they would have done it...and not been on this site....

It's like going to a marriage counselor that has been divorced 3 times....i'm sorry their advice i wouldn't trust...
but it takes 2 people to keep the relationship going I don't believe both people are always at fault for a relationship failing.

sorry I think there is normally 3 sides to a story yours, theirs, and the truth...which their is normally a little bit on both sides..because one might see it one way why another sees it a different way...i think only in the case of abuse it only one persons fault
honest communication is a key factor in a successful relationship without that you have nothing IMOflowerforyou

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Sun 06/07/09 08:54 AM




I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....

I'll give advice on things such as getting over someone...because i've done that...

But advice on "staying in love" 99% of the people on this site could not possibly give sound advice.....or they would have done it...and not been on this site....

It's like going to a marriage counselor that has been divorced 3 times....i'm sorry their advice i wouldn't trust...
but it takes 2 people to keep the relationship going I don't believe both people are always at fault for a relationship failing.

sorry I think there is normally 3 sides to a story yours, theirs, and the truth...which their is normally a little bit on both sides..because one might see it one way why another sees it a different way...i think only in the case of abuse it only one persons fault
honest communication is a key factor in a successful relationship without that you have nothing IMOflowerforyou

completly agree...however it takes two sides to be honest and two sides to be RECEPTIVE A lot of people say they want honesty but they can't handle and fly off the handle and misjudge what the other person is saying so that in turn inspires the person to not be 'fully' honest next time because they are afraid the reactions....see both sides IMO flowerforyou

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Sun 06/07/09 10:02 AM

The joy of being together...the fact that they enjoy eachothers company and revel in it.

If they are insecure about losing the other person, then that should be explored to find out why so it can be rectified. When u feel really loved, u dont feel insecure.


This really sums it up for me. When we are secure in our relationship, NOTHING can change it.

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Sun 06/07/09 10:05 AM
I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....


ever think that maybe one knows the desired result, or supposed path, but can't navigate the process?

i didn't think so.

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Sun 06/07/09 10:14 AM

I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....

I'll give advice on things such as getting over someone...because i've done that...

But advice on "staying in love" 99% of the people on this site could not possibly give sound advice.....or they would have done it...and not been on this site....

It's like going to a marriage counselor that has been divorced 3 times....i'm sorry their advice i wouldn't trust...


I had a successful marriage. I know what makes a relationship work. And some of us aren't looking, just fyi.

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Sun 06/07/09 10:36 AM


I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....

I'll give advice on things such as getting over someone...because i've done that...

But advice on "staying in love" 99% of the people on this site could not possibly give sound advice.....or they would have done it...and not been on this site....

It's like going to a marriage counselor that has been divorced 3 times....i'm sorry their advice i wouldn't trust...


I had a successful marriage. I know what makes a relationship work. And some of us aren't looking, just fyi.

you are in the 1% of people on here then flowerforyou

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Sun 06/07/09 10:50 AM



I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....

I'll give advice on things such as getting over someone...because i've done that...

But advice on "staying in love" 99% of the people on this site could not possibly give sound advice.....or they would have done it...and not been on this site....

It's like going to a marriage counselor that has been divorced 3 times....i'm sorry their advice i wouldn't trust...


I had a successful marriage. I know what makes a relationship work. And some of us aren't looking, just fyi.

you are in the 1% of people on here then flowerforyou


I guess so am I since I am in a happy relationship also

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Sun 06/07/09 09:46 PM




I love how everyone on here has so much advice for making something work....yet here they are still looking....

I'll give advice on things such as getting over someone...because i've done that...

But advice on "staying in love" 99% of the people on this site could not possibly give sound advice.....or they would have done it...and not been on this site....

It's like going to a marriage counselor that has been divorced 3 times....i'm sorry their advice i wouldn't trust...
but it takes 2 people to keep the relationship going I don't believe both people are always at fault for a relationship failing.

sorry I think there is normally 3 sides to a story yours, theirs, and the truth...which their is normally a little bit on both sides..because one might see it one way why another sees it a different way...i think only in the case of abuse it only one persons fault
honest communication is a key factor in a successful relationship without that you have nothing IMOflowerforyou
bigsmile so trueflowerforyou