Topic: Need To Be With Someone Now!!!
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Thu 05/28/09 01:36 PM
Edited by shoesmonkey on Thu 05/28/09 01:38 PM

You know..it's not the kids..or family or house or work or job or love or sex really..

Let's just say an example: I haven't been in the movies for over a year now. I just won't go alone and yet i really want to go see movies.

Or...there are places I wanted to go and want to go, travel and see things..but again, I won't do it alone and I don't want to go with relatives or just friends....I want to share some good times, but it seems like the gods are working against me.
I go to the movie's with my sister. That work's for me. Ofcourse, a date would be nicer. Which remind's me. Tomorrow is Friday. I wonder what's playing, maybe we will go.

directandwrite's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:37 PM




Do you feel like you need to be in a relationship? If so, why?


I sometimes feel like I need to be into one, until I actually do get into one; then, after 3 months, I feel the need to be alone again. It's kind of a cycle....






Which is why Lex has so many dead bodies under his patio.


I moved them to the neighbor's shed, they were starting to break through into the dungeon.





And here I thought it was the smell that was getting to you.... lol

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Thu 05/28/09 01:38 PM





Do you feel like you need to be in a relationship? If so, why?


I sometimes feel like I need to be into one, until I actually do get into one; then, after 3 months, I feel the need to be alone again. It's kind of a cycle....






Which is why Lex has so many dead bodies under his patio.


I moved them to the neighbor's shed, they were starting to break through into the dungeon.





And here I thought it was the smell that was getting to you.... lol


Nah, the Spring Mist Lilac air freshener in the 55-gallon drum takes care of that.


directandwrite's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:39 PM
Edited by directandwrite on Thu 05/28/09 01:39 PM






Do you feel like you need to be in a relationship? If so, why?





And here I thought it was the smell that was getting to you.... lol


Nah, the Spring Mist Lilac air freshener in the 55-gallon drum takes care of that.




SNAP! LOL You know I was always wondering about those air fresheners though...hmmmmm.....

Atlantis75's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:40 PM


You know..it's not the kids..or family or house or work or job or love or sex really..

Let's just say an example: I haven't been in the movies for over a year now. I just won't go alone and yet i really want to go see movies.

Or...there are places I wanted to go and want to go, travel and see things..but again, I won't do it alone and I don't want to go with relatives or just friends....I want to share some good times, but it seems like the gods are working against me.
I go to the movie's with my sister. That work's for me. Ofcourse, a date would be nicer.


Gone with my brother before. Not as great, even if the whole idea about movies to be quiet and pay attention to the movie and sit. I miss the complaining of "is this another action movie" or the whole drama before and after actually seeing the movie. In reality, it's not the movie that matters.

no photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:43 PM
everybody needs somebody

even nobody

directandwrite's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:45 PM
To better answer your question, Tanya...when I feel like I really want a relationship, it's because I love the company...being in the presence of someone who thinks you are wonderful and beautiful just as you are, flaws and all. I love that feeling, who doesn't? It's just that flitter in your tummy that says, "this is so right." I think that's why we all want it....it's like a roller coaster where you're weightless or something...course I am a romantic sap too..... ohwell

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:46 PM
No I don't NEED a relationship with a man

I love a good freinship with one :heart:

Totage's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:47 PM

Do you feel like you need to be in a relationship? If so, why?


Yes, I think we all need to be in a relationship. We are social creatures and need companionship. I don't think we are designed to be alone.

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Thu 05/28/09 01:50 PM

To better answer your question, Tanya...when I feel like I really want a relationship, it's because I love the company...being in the presence of someone who thinks you are wonderful and beautiful just as you are, flaws and all. I love that feeling, who doesn't? It's just that flitter in your tummy that says, "this is so right." I think that's why we all want it....it's like a roller coaster where you're weightless or something...course I am a romantic sap too..... ohwell
nothing wrong with being romantic flowerforyou

directandwrite's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:51 PM


To better answer your question, Tanya...when I feel like I really want a relationship, it's because I love the company...being in the presence of someone who thinks you are wonderful and beautiful just as you are, flaws and all. I love that feeling, who doesn't? It's just that flitter in your tummy that says, "this is so right." I think that's why we all want it....it's like a roller coaster where you're weightless or something...course I am a romantic sap too..... ohwell
nothing wrong with being romantic flowerforyou


Thanks, Rare! flowerforyou Some say it's a sign of weakness....

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:53 PM
Not me I'm in a little bit of a dilemma right now, I can't decide which oneslaphead

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Thu 05/28/09 01:54 PM



To better answer your question, Tanya...when I feel like I really want a relationship, it's because I love the company...being in the presence of someone who thinks you are wonderful and beautiful just as you are, flaws and all. I love that feeling, who doesn't? It's just that flitter in your tummy that says, "this is so right." I think that's why we all want it....it's like a roller coaster where you're weightless or something...course I am a romantic sap too..... ohwell
nothing wrong with being romantic flowerforyou


Thanks, Rare! flowerforyou Some say it's a sign of weakness....
it isnt imo, its a feature that helps deepen the relationship

directandwrite's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:54 PM

Not me I'm in a little bit of a dilemma right now, I can't decide which oneslaphead


Lucky you!!! Woot!!

tanyaann's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:55 PM

After 40 years I realized that my childhood sweet heart only lives 2 miles away and that she is more than likely available.

I am torn with procrastination

Good to see you Tanya





Old love... I have seen a lot of couples get back together after many many years! Best wishes!

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:57 PM


Not me I'm in a little bit of a dilemma right now, I can't decide which oneslaphead


Lucky you!!! Woot!!



I went from not too much going on to multiples & it's driving me crazy!

silly's photo
Thu 05/28/09 01:58 PM
Don't need to be in one,but would like to be in one.Only this time not with another jerk.:angry: grumble

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Thu 05/28/09 01:59 PM



Not me I'm in a little bit of a dilemma right now, I can't decide which oneslaphead


Lucky you!!! Woot!!



I went from not too much going on to multiples & it's driving me crazy!
i hate being in that situation explode

tanyaann's photo
Thu 05/28/09 02:00 PM


Do you feel like you need to be in a relationship? If so, why?


Yes, I think we all need to be in a relationship. We are social creatures and need companionship. I don't think we are designed to be alone.


But why need to be in a relationship, can't friends fulfill our socialization?

directandwrite's photo
Thu 05/28/09 02:00 PM
Rare finds himself in that situation quite a bit.... happy