I had a job interview the other day. I was not interested in the job, but a friend set it up without asking me. I went and did the whole interview in my Hannibal Lecter voice, just staring and smiling; is this Ms Briscoe? Well...Good Evening Ms Briscoe. The lady kept looking around the room for some reason. An hour later the HR department called me and they called yesterday to set up a second interview, which I will turn down. It figures, when you don't care they want you, when you do, they don't. That ever happen in your dating life? And another thing... is it me or does the lady Kate from John and Kate plus Eight look like Lilith and is well you know sort of er, er assertive (yeah that's the ticket) just like her. Must be the hair cut.

That is exactly true in dating life! When you don't give a rats ass anymore, they want you.

You mean other than the blonde hair that is lopsided?

I think lilith looks like the "tot mom"

When you don't care, it is easier to be yourself..even if you are goofing around, you are at ease and confident.

I find myself having to choose between the one I love and the one who will love me.

if you had to run a house with 1 paycheck and 8 kids you would be assertive too

Wouldn't really be fair to either of you to 'settle' for the one who will love you.

WOW!! It seems like that happens every time...when you don't really like someone, you just can't seem to shake them. BUT when you think you really click and it would be really nice to go out again, they never call you again. I think this whole dating thing is an evil thing that is just trying to drive us all crazy, the question is..do we give in??

Perhaps not, but who will give you heart ache? Certainly not the one who loves you.