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Topic: Heart vs Mind
yellowrose10's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:20 PM
when your heart and mind can't agree...which do you follow?

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Sat 05/23/09 08:22 PM
My heart

galendgirl's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:22 PM
I can't find the instruction manual...
Seriously. This is a really hard choice sometimes.flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:24 PM
flowerforyou I take both into considerationflowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:25 PM
let's say in a potenital relationship or current relationship...your brain is telling you it won't work out for logical reasons, but your heart is telling you it will be ok

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Sat 05/23/09 08:28 PM
My heart has led me down a path of sorrow & near ruin in the past so it is imperative that I follow my mind's compass now & in the future.:smile: flowerforyou

galendgirl's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:28 PM
Ultimately, it probably depends on the person.

For me, if I'm able to tolerate whatever level of risk is involved, I'll take the gamble on what my heart tells me to do. Really scary stuff at times...but if you can take the worst life can deal, a least you won't be looking back asking "what if?"

ZAfterlife's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:28 PM
I always want to follow my heart but I'm just dreaming... I know that my brain has read the situation right.

galendgirl's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:29 PM

I always want to follow my heart but I'm just dreaming... I know that my brain has read the situation right.


Have you ever been guilty of over-thinking something? I know I have.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:30 PM
I dont know, but at that point I keep away from the wallet, and the refridgerator.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:31 PM
I know I over analyze things because of heartbreak in the past hen I ignored my mind.

I found myself arguing and debating with myself a lot lately lol. I'm just waiting for the day when my mind tellis my heart "told ya so" lol

ZAfterlife's photo
Sat 05/23/09 08:33 PM
All the time!

Want2B5ft's photo
Sat 05/23/09 11:32 PM

I know I over analyze things because of heartbreak in the past hen I ignored my mind.

I found myself arguing and debating with myself a lot lately lol. I'm just waiting for the day when my mind tellis my heart "told ya so" lol


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Sat 05/23/09 11:37 PM

when your heart and mind can't agree...which do you follow?

Hmmm....this is a tough one

ReddBeans's photo
Sat 05/23/09 11:40 PM
Personally I let the voices argue it amongest themselves until they've reached a decision an then take it from thereshades

Monier's photo
Sun 05/24/09 12:22 AM
I usually follow my mind, but recenty I followed my heart and my mind ended up telling me 'I told you so' It was embarassing slaphead

TheShadow's photo
Sun 05/24/09 06:06 AM
Usually my mind. Hell being on the net, if i listen to my heart more then my mind. Id be in a hell of a lot more trouble then i am now.

krupa's photo
Sun 05/24/09 06:23 AM
The trick is splitting the difference and heeding both...

been to more than one dance honey...

when my emotions start running away with me (good or bad)..I gotta force myself to remember my past experiences...

When I find myself being analytical in an emotionless way..I gotta force myself to remember that everything I do, I am doing to find love and happiness.

It ain't easy.

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Sun 05/24/09 09:41 AM
Sometimes it's very hard to decide which to listen to. I have that same problem sometimes..

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 05/24/09 10:18 AM
ty to all that contributed. it's nice knowing I'm not alone in the war between heart and mind lol. lately I try to listen to both and if my mind is telling me don't do it....they are red flags and watch out. that doesn't mean I don't do it though lol...but then I have at least learned something.

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